a good friend of mine has just broken up with her boyfriend like two weeks ago. im starting to like her and im not sure if she likes me. im going to her house tonite so wat do u think i should act like, should i try to make a move or is it too early
2007-02-23 02:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its too early give her some time to get over it. She needs some time to heal from the relationship. You should give her some time to recover and just be a really good friend to her now. And you never know something may come out of that. But give her time so that she can heal from the relationship she just came out of. And be a shoulder to lean on when she needs it. Good luck
2007-02-23 02:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by D21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too early dude - take it from a guy a little older than you would probably be... mates stick around and are waay more valuable than some chick that you think you like now. Don't lose the boys man, they are your life. If you want to make a move on this girl - run it past your friend first - hard, yes, but he will respect you for it.
2007-02-23 10:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by mwhyte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long they were together. If it was less than 6 months, go for it. Longer, see how you feel when you're there. But don't wait forever, or someone else may make a move.
When a girl is recently out of a relationship, it's nice to know that there's someone out there that's interested in them, and that they have options that are better than the last one.
2007-02-23 10:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, things happen for a reason. But girls are fickle so be sure she wants to be more than friends. HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY. (in this situation) If your good friends you should be able to talk about it without the awkwardness. Hell I'm dating a girl i grew up with. And she was dating her ex for about 5 years and now I'm the man in her life. So see how it goes. ;)
2007-02-23 10:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by drmplaya4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calmly ask her what she thinks about going on a date with you. I'm going to this guys that I like tonight as well. He was my friends, now, hopefully it will turn into more. But I made the first move and he was happy about it so I say, go for it. Make yourself happy for once.
2007-02-23 10:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes make a move or someone else will. Also if you wait too long you'll never get out of the "friend" category.
2007-02-23 10:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by neoaltro1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To early. You don't want to be a rebound. Make sure she's completely over him before you start anything with her.
2007-02-23 10:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's having a tough time with the break up then just be friendly to her. If you go over and she seems to be fine with the situation then maybe bring it up in casual conversation.
2007-02-23 10:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all deoends on alot of things, How long she was with the guy, if she is still upset and does she like you? Sometimes people are just meant to be friends....good luck~!
2007-02-23 10:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to her and be there for her and tell her you really like her
but if it is too early she might just have you as a rebound so let her know you are into her just don't make any big steps tonight
2007-02-23 10:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋