I have a huge crush on a guy that I've known for a couple of years, but have just recently become better friends with. And I can't read him at all! he agreed to escort me to my birthday party when apparently that's not something he would typically do.
i know there's this theory that if a guy likes you, he'll act like he doesn't, or he'll be mean to you. well this guy can be "mean" or jokingly mean to everyone else but is a lot nicer to me. how would that theory work in this case??
i'm obviously going crazy. any advice? tips? signs to look for?
2007-02-23 02:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know if that's how he is with all of his girl friends.
2007-02-23 02:11:50 · update #1
flirt with him and see how he reacts
2007-02-23 02:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The theory is just a theory, not all guys are like that. Yeah maybe some will be a Joking mean to you, because we are told that's the way woman like it. Anyway others will be nice to you because there are guys who are like that and are a gentalmen. But what I suggest to you is maybe you should try flirting with him, or hit on him a little, just a little, and not too major, but enough for him to notice whats up. Who knows maybe he'll flirt back. You might even try to tell him how you feel about him. What I have done before is I pretended to accidently let my friends (girls) that I like this one chick, you know they would put two and two together and the would ask if I liked the girl, and I would smile and look away and then try to change the subject. Then I would know that they would start telling everyone and then it will eventually get to the girl I liked (Which took about a day, It's high school) and well lets just say we went out for about a year. But try something like that, and maybe the fish will bite the bait, if you catch my drift.
BD
If you have any more questions and this comment was helpful, let me know.
2007-02-23 10:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "He's Just Not That Into You." But don't if you're in High School. Just ask him. Tell him what you see about how he acts, and ask if it's a sign that he likes you. He'll be refreshed that you're not playing games, or talking to your girlfriends, etc.
2007-02-23 10:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does like you, but I found if you stay "just friends" with someone for too long then it looses that "love" feel and it becomes more of a brother/sister sort of thing. I say just talk to him about it. If you're good friends it won't hurt either way.
2007-02-23 10:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't have friends that are girls they don't like...he likes you. And the whole "he has to be mean to you to like you " crap goes out the window with a high school degree...when you grow up it doesn't work that way anymore. Sure playing hard to get still rears its ugly head but for the most part the "mean thing" doesn't happen
2007-02-23 10:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all depends on how old you are....if your that worried just ask him and take the awnser he gives you even if its a no
2007-02-23 10:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ty D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl maybe you could wait until he tells you that he loves you or you'll be the one who will aproach to him
2007-02-23 10:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by tagasagot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he flirts with you alot
2007-02-23 10:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by larinalt72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋