I was extremely confident as a kid onto my early teens, where did it all go?

Question

I am 19 years old now, and I used to be very confident when I was in my elementary and early high school years. Where did it all go? I would fight anyone not even caring if I knew I would get my *** handed to me. I would talk whenever I'd want to and speak my mind whenever I'd want to without caring what others thought AT ALL. Can someone tell me why, and give me some advice as how I can get back into that mind frame?

Answer 1

Ha Ha. It seem like your beter not in that mind friend. I can't agee however that fighting without caring and not caring what others think is a sign of confidence. It is more a sign of agression. Confidence means that you come up for your self- but not to the disadvantage/or harming others.