He has never concealed anything to me.I know everything abt his good and bad characters.He himself has told me.He didn't get mother's love when he was born.So he wants me to show all the love and affection for him just as a mother .I'm 19 yrs old and he's 21.He has never tasted his mother's milk.So he want to sip in my breast.But I'm not a mother to feed him.So he wished to hurt me with a blade in the breast and drink the blood of mine.I refused and he also didn't do anything.If I don't care abt him,then he himself hurts with blade. But I don't understand why he's behaving like this.Is he affected as he don't had mother's love?He feel very depressed when he thinks of his mother .what shall I do?For personal qns mail at "lakshmi_duncan@yahoo.co.in"
2007-02-23 00:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I could not let him down 4 any cause.I gotta help him.He will do anything 4 me.Even now he's struggling to learn in order to get a job.I could see a better performance in his studies than before when v were not familiar with each other.How to deal with him abt this matter
2007-02-23 01:07:29 · update #1
hi laxmi,
the guy of your love, as it seems, has suffered a lot as a child.
this is the usual behaviour among those who cant recieve mother's care.
the perversions might be the result of the love he didnt recieve as a child.
But to know the exact cause and to live with him for rest of your future, the first thing you have do is to take him to a PSYCHIATRIST. If possible encourage him to practice yoga, and meditation. The latter gives him a chance to look into himself, an insight that could avert his perversions.Many a times your love and affection heal him faster along with Psychiatric counselling.If you want any help further, contact me.
All the Best in endeavours
with regards
Dr. Jagan
2007-02-23 03:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by jaganp_dr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no simple answer for such a serious and bizarre action of your lover. It needs to be treated by a qualified psychiatrist. Do not feel ashamed to personally take him to a Psychiatrist. Even a Psychiatrist cannot give a solution in one sitting. He needs to take the full case history and go with a neat treatment plan.
Good Luck.
2007-02-23 12:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweets
its very unfortunate for both of u, if he really loves u he wudnt even dream of hurting u, at the sametime looks like u have been giving in too much. and u r too young to even act ashis mother. dont get emotionally involved with him try and help him get help from the psychiatrists, i cant think of anything else u cud to help him, but u cud do lots to help urself u r young u have a whole life in front of u so dont get distracted
2007-02-23 09:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by rush2drdeepa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help, he needs more help. You cannot be his mother, nor can you save him. He needs to go to a therapist now if he threatening to hurt himself. Most likely he is doing it for attention, but you can never tell. Do not let this guy cut you...
2007-02-23 08:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its a bit odd but it seems as if there is more to him than meets the eye. Try to help him out as best you can without hurting your self or him. Telling him self destruction won;t help isn't enough either. You got to really help him.
2007-02-23 08:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Malice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real question. Both of you should visit Psychiatrist. He will guide you better.
2007-02-23 08:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by satya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has serious problems and needs a psychiatrist. You need a psychiatrist for hanging around with this psycho!
2007-02-23 12:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart you have to get out of that relationship until he gets help. He can seriously hurt you, please, please, please get out and make him get the help he needs. Nobody in their right mind would ask or demand such a thing. He is punishing himself perhaps because of the lack of affection from his mother. He may feel unworthy of love. Honey, please for your own safety, get out until he gets the help he needs. Good luck. God Bless and put angels on your pillows.
2007-02-23 08:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is going from utter depression there is probably one thing to sove his problem
he just needs a mother. moreover take him to sycologist
2007-02-23 08:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweta a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get him some help. If he cuts your breast he still will not get milk unless your pregnant. Please save yourself and get away from this craziness.
2007-02-23 08:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋