at first they had sex just 3 times now its 8, he says there was no commitment on his part but he was calling her everyday from morning to night everyday sometimes 32 times a day
2007-02-23 00:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not just men who do this, its everybody. Its called human nature. Its a sense of self preservation. Its been going on for thousands of years and will continue to go on. Lying is by no means exclusive to the male gender. everyone, and I mean everyone lies, or stretches the truth, or maybe doesn't tell the whole story at one time or another.
Now, the lying isn't the issue here. Its the cheating. Try to find out why he cheated. Was it something you did or maybe didn't do? Or is it his character itself that is in question.
Don't lump all men together in this because its not fair to the rest of us that you have a bum for a husband.
2007-02-23 00:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by K B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the undertaking with jealousy is that it makes you appear to be a fool. do not enable jealousy shop the previous alive. the different issue with jealousy is that it will at last push him to actual do what you're jealous of. it could quite make you right into a self pleasing prophecy. So perhaps redefining this jealousy element could be useful. evaluate it 'dating lack of self belief' while he's finding out different women persons. How does he react in case you check out different adult males? the comparable way? in case you the two have this subject in undemanding, have you ever explored counseling as an determination? In psychobabble words, those are transference and projection matters and somewhat some a marriage has fallen aside as a results of not coping with those matters suitable. consequently, my suggestion to get expert help. do not enable your jealousy make a fool of you anymore and don't enable it destroy your dating(s). come across a solid counselor.
2016-12-17 16:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he is just making a fool of you. Just try and ask him why he is behaving like that to you. If he doesn't love you anymore then you people should better divorce rather than treating you like that. If he is having a concubine then it means he does not love you. Or maybe you did something wrong to him, if so then try and beg for forgiveness. But even if you did something wrong to him, that's not the way he should behave towards you. If he doesn't need you any more then then you can call for a divorce because I know that right now you are going through pain and hell.
2007-02-23 03:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is fun.... maybe you should ask for an open marriage and see if you can find a well endowed guy to service your IN PERSON 32 times a day!! :D
2007-02-23 00:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Yeah yeah and when you first caught him did he say "wait, this insn't what it looks like"?
He knows he is very wrong and doesn't want to give that up so it's hard to admit to full extent of what he did.
2007-02-23 00:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol this is to funnie, but i under stand what you saying, ... first men, are smart lol, an they know when to keep their mouth shut,,, they know they in deep trouble, an why do they want to dig the hole deeper,lol,,, as a mam ,, i know women dont for get, an al ways get even, an some men , belive it on a need to know base lol
2007-02-23 00:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, get rid of this idiot! He's a liar and a coward and you deserve better than that!
And, Gostwalker, these type of men aren't smart, they're pathetic!!!!!
2007-02-23 00:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf? Thats outrageous... what kind of person r u? If u think u r good dedicated and not a cheater, then move on. don stay with this fkr.
All the best.. if u r good u will get good..!! don worry it will be difficult at first but it will be alright soon.
2007-02-23 00:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One time or one hundred doesn't matter. Kick him to the curb.
2007-02-23 00:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. kick them out, counting dosent matter
2007-02-23 00:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋