I have a huge crush on a 1st yr MBA student (I'm a 2nd year). I've landed a great job post-MBA, so helped her out with interview prep for internships. She would always be nervous, smile lots and be very flirtatious. She's absolutely stunning and her BF is a lucky f**k! She asked me to have drinks with her to celebrate end of recruiting (reminded me like 3 times). We had drinks earlier this week, and she sat next to me instead of across at a 4-seater table and showed all the signs of interest (leaning forward, smiling,blushing, playing with her hair, etc.) She asked me why I was single. I said "I keep meeting girls who are taken, I can't do anything with them, can I?" and held my smile/stare. She totally blushed and said sometimes girls don't know what's best for them and need to be reminded. But she also said I'm happy with my BF. She kept giving me mixed signals throughout. When we started talking about "wild" experiences, she was not too impressed with my stories (Qn contd below...)
2007-02-23 00:09:38 · 9 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She asked me to tell her "wild" stories from my dating life -- and I basically told her about a time with a stranger in Brazil and another time with a girl who was much older to me. But she didn't seem too impressed, and hinted at some point that she's turned on by "reformed bad boys". She's herself very innocent looking and seems to have dated around. She's tremendously pretty and freaking stunning! I don't know what to do next ...I kept getting mixed signals from her throughout the dinner. She would totally flirt, give me a lead in, and then immediately say she's happy with her BF (or take the example of others who have expressed interest in her and she's told them that she's happy with her BF) Sounds like she like attention. I'd like to go out with her (she grew up in the same city as I, we have similar career goals, etc.), but she's got a BF in another city. How do I impress her? Should I? What if she ends up cheating on me? How do I cope with yet another lost crush? Any ideas?
2007-02-23 00:14:31 · update #1
The fact that she had drinks with you definitely means she's interested but at the same time she is taken. Put yourself in her boyfriends position and think again. Think with your big head instead of your little one.
2007-02-23 00:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl wants some fun.
Just simple meaningless sex with someone while she is away from her bf.
That's what she is trying to tell you.
That she isn't going to break up with her bf, but she is open to the sexual relationship with you if your up for it.
So you have to decide if you want this kind of relationship with her.
You would get some awsome sex, but nothing else from her.
Can you do that without getting emotionally attached?
Can you do that and still work with her in studies and things of that nature?
Will you be able to handle meeting her bf when the time comes? (and it probably will)
She has given you all the signals of being interested in sex with you , but has told you flat out she is not dumping her bf.
So, if you like hot meaningless sex with a hott girl and it won't drive you crazy emotionally or in school, lay the wood.
If you don't think you can handle that, then keep your distance and I'd stay away from having drinks anymore.
2007-02-23 00:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mr R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is just using you! I would find another gorgeous girl - I am sure if you were the boyfriend, you would not be impressed with this behavior.
2007-02-23 00:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her out she might go with you or you can wait a little until she drops her bf
2007-02-23 00:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to make the 1st(or 2nd) move. Wait and make sure b4 making a fool of yourself. Just wait, if she wants you, she'll come and get you.
2007-02-23 00:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. she has got a boy friend, so wait until she get break up with his bf
2007-02-23 00:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u like her back if u do then well then date her. If you don't then tell her u don't like her the same way
2007-02-23 00:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by tommy two tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was just drinks
till she gets rid of the BF, she is a NO NO!
2007-02-23 00:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are all whores ! face it its true ! see my earlier Question "would you date a girl who said she wasn't with him but still lived with her ex-bf" they suck and well we want them to be good at it ! but their still dirty whores !
2007-02-23 00:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋