2007-02-22 23:49:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no u can't marry a man who is having 1 kid
but if there is some family relatinship then u can it depends on how u feel.but if u love the person very much den u should marry.
2007-02-22 23:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by priyanka c 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Providing you like the child and know you will be good and caring towards the child, the fact that he actually has a child should not be an issue. The child will always be part of the father and you need to be understanding that from the beginning you are sharing his love. Also being practical this child has to be kept for a good number of years and your husband will no doubt be paying out whether the child lives with you or with an ex partner. If these reasons are not a problem then niether is the child. The question you have to ask is do you love each other? Will this person be a good husband. Hope all works out.
2007-02-23 00:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think on this.. men marry women with kids all the time so why cant a women marry a man with kids as long as the other women doesn't do anything to this mans new g/f soon to be wife then its OK.. just make sure there are no feelings to the mother and visa versa....good luck
2007-02-23 01:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was not married and I met a man who had a child already, I would not allow that to stop me.
In the modern world almost everyone has a child with someone other than their present spouse.
Its not uncommon to meet someone who has not already had any children. (wow that was a bit of a tongue twister)
Hope you follow what I was saying here? Right I think its time for my bed time!!! Good night.
2007-03-01 10:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by _ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many, many more potential disqualifiers than whether the man has a child. However, the fact you're bringing it up may be an indication that his parental status may be a significant factor for you. If that's the case, examine why that's the case.
2007-03-02 03:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not, only because I have never wanted children.
But to be fair, if the relationship developed far enough that this had to be decided, then it would be a hard choice to make. Men who have children are a package deal, and I would have to accept that or move on.
2007-02-23 01:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am about to marry a man (May 2007) who has one kid. I find no problem whatsoever.
2007-02-23 01:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by fhockey1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did...and he is the absolute best man I could ever imagine being with. He's hard working, an excellent husband and father, and God-fearing.
2007-02-27 04:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by theplanningdiva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not marry a man who has fathered children or is interesting in fathering children.
2007-02-23 00:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you are going to get married to a man who has a child, you need to love the child or children just has much.
2007-02-23 01:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by raven s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends - how much do you love him? Do you love (or even like) the kid? Is the kid's mother around and will she be any kind of problem to your relationship?
2007-02-22 23:57:04 · answer #11 · answered by bumpity-bump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋