this girl and I went out a few times, then she told me she just wanted to be friends and a relationship was not what she wanted. We stopped talking for a month, and i would always find her looking at me in the pub. now she started talking to me on msn and started texting me alot! On msn she kept telling me that she is having "men trouble" and that her parents are wondering why she can't get a boyfriend. She also kept telling me about how valentines day is her worst day of the year, because of all the couples. So i said "why is it your most dreaded day? I thought you didnt want a relationship!" She totally ignored this! She also keeps dropping hints to me, like the other day she told me she wanted to go for a walk and basicly told me she wanted me to meet her. I invited her out, but when she realised my mate was going to be there she said it would be "awkward". I then invited her to watch a dvd at my house, but when she discovered a different friend would be there, again she declined.
2007-02-22 23:37:18 · 17 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought that if we were just "friends" then this would be ok. So i invited her around alone, and she text me saying "just to clarify, this is just a 'friends' thing". She then chose to watch the movie in my room, on my bed, instead of downstairs, and she kept getting closer to me during the film until she was leaning on me. She also kept looking at me in the mirror when she thought i wasnt looking. When i left my room to go to the bathroom when i came back she had turned the main light off and put my lamp on, which was very weird. The other day she told me she's depressed and wanted to go to the cinema, I asked her who she was going with and she totaly ignored me. she then text me saying she was bored and didnt know what to do. I said that I thought she was going to the cinema. She said she couldnt find any one to go with!! I told her that I would have gone, if she just asked, to which she replied "i didnt think you'd be interested"... What do you think she wants?
2007-02-22 23:37:44 · update #1
u need 2 move on
2007-02-22 23:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me this sounds like you wants to be your friend but she is wondering if she likes you or not. I wouldn't say that talk about 'not having a boyfriend' and 'valentines day' is a hint that she likes you. If she said she wants you as a friend, then she was probably just talking to you as a friend. Perhaps when she said she didn't want a relationship, she just meant with you. That might sound cruel, but it could be the case.
I'd suggest that you stay friends with her but try to move on and look for someone else.
2007-02-22 23:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up on the Novel Writing, here! The mere definition of a Woman? Is "Mixed Signals"! She's wanting to see if you can pick upon `em? Make her see your point of view. If you wus-out? She'll leave you for Greener Pastures. But she is interested! Be a Man! Stand your Ground. Let her know that you'd like to make something of this! Good Luck!
2007-02-22 23:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is playing silly games - however, if you confronted her with this she would probably get mad, totally dispise you (for seeing through her) and never forgive you. What she is doing is playing you like a fish; as soon as you take the bait she pulls back; when you steep back she throws out the line again. i suggest you simply ask her out on a specific date ; name the time/day /place. If she says no or ums and ahhs just say 'OK ; no problem', and do not ask her again or wonder what is going on. Just move on and find someone else who does not play games.
2007-02-22 23:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a flake. She's only testing to see if you would react to the situation. No sooner than you would try to make a move than she would jump up and leave. She has self esteem issues when she is not dating anybody and then she is not happy when she is dating somebody. She wants the world to revolve around her and when that happens, she wants something else. Keep it as friends because she would definitely be BAD NEWS if you got involved
2007-02-22 23:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life Goes On
2007-02-22 23:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs some attention and is trying to get it from you. She is comforting herself with you and once she gets a boyfriend. She will move on. Until that time, she likes hanging around you and leading you so you will accidentally love her and she can feel good about herself.
2007-02-22 23:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really likes you,its just that she had lots of worries and fear,if you really love her then you ought to prove her theres nothing she should worry about,keep talking and dating with her it will help,,,,,keep telling her you love her even if she would turn you down,,,,make her feel that it would be a big lost in her life if she failed to try to love and trust,hurting is part of life after all
2007-02-22 23:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes changes her mind about the friend thing and obviously she now feels she does want a relationship with you. If you want one with her, go along with it, see how she acts. She does like you...
2007-02-23 00:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad case of awkward young love. The good news is you are both equally good at being bad at it.
2007-02-22 23:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋