Why do women believe thats ok ? I can't understand it ? they'll call his house her home even though it was hes a long time before she even met the guy, than they have the nerve to stay there and not move out which is just cheap and lazy ! and than think its ok to date other guys. I just can't trust or respect a girl like that, its still a moral Question ! What do you think ? is it ok or is she just trouble ?
2007-02-22 22:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Zosos I love ypur attitude man it brings a smile to my face and makes me laugh a bit, just that i thaught std's were prevalent in africa & the US ! Not as wide spread here mate cheers anyway ! I appreciate your work !
2007-02-23 09:27:56 · update #1
Mr D - hoe true ! however by not establishing her moral values your just giving women like that another chance & sayning to them, thats cool ! whatever ! Make them earn the right man, otherwise they will forever win ! bro !
Amanda, i appreciate your honesty its just that i hate women like that !
moralityi, yeh cool man, it would be easy if it was just to hit a homerun ! but my emtions an shi-t bro ! I need to strengthen up man ! Your very right overwise !
seretazandrae, yep right again ! and why should i be forced into saving face by knocking hes teeth out ! i dont really like him and i think hes a chump but still hes a hard working chump !
CG, no he is paying of hes own house hun, otherwise i could kinda understand that, but would still be uncomfortable with it !
2007-02-23 19:59:19 · update #2
Trouble, definitely trouble with a capital T.
Also, I think she's telling fibbies, I think she is still with her boyfriend............ maybe he just works 24/7.......... or she wants her cake and eat it too??? he's probably financial and you probably really handsome???
.... :0)
PEACE
2007-02-22 22:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Minx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being As Hard Up As You Prob. Are Just Leaver Her Pimp{ex} Some Loose Change And A Disease Or Two You Aussies Are Known To Carry stds
2007-02-23 08:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by zoso 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell YA! This is actually better for you when you dump her. Don't pass by an easy home run cause that would just make you gay. If your the type that is thinking about looking for a women to settle down with, let me give you a reality check that you will lose have of your money and pension if it doesn't work out. Did i mention child support? Take the car out for a test drive, but don't buy it. Good luck!
2007-02-23 06:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's not miss the main point here...YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THIS SITUATION! Does she know how you feel? If not, tell her. Yes, he maybe helping her out financially and all, but always consider there maybe more than the eyes can see. Once you both have discussed the situation thouroughly, then you need to make a decision based on trust and mutual understanding. I personally will be honest, I'd have my cake and eat it too if I found me a dumbass to let me(and in the past, I have). Odds are either the money or sex is too good to leave. In either case, she (I am assuming) can not respect you enough to have considered leaving his place...so you need to find you a woman who not only has enough respect for herself, but for YOU!!! Best of luck to you.
2007-02-23 07:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but you are probably getting yourself into a bad situation if you do date her. It looks like she isn't being honest about things with you. Why would she not be with him and live with him at the same time. I bet if you asked him about the relationship you would get a different answer all together.
2007-02-23 07:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get that either. I think she is bad news. It doesn't make since to be still living with your ex boyfriend if you two aren't together....unless she has financial problems...but that is a rare chance!! I think she is just lieing to you! But then again, why would she tell you that she stayed with her boyfriend? hummmm...this is tricky! I think she is lazy and can't afford her own spot so she depends on him! So the answer to your question is "NO"...I wouldn't go out with a male/female who still lived with his/her ex!! That's not cool!
2007-02-23 06:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and I definitely do NOT think it's a good or smart idea to date such kind of a girl. She is trouble and will cause you trouble. Go find a girl who's 100% available.
2007-02-23 06:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by claire d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't want to "date" a girl like that. You said it yourself that you can't trust/respect a girl like that. With that said and feelings aside, just bone her, get what you can out of her and move on. If you've already put time into it, might as well get some out of it.
2007-02-23 07:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its trouble! If she is lazy and cant move out of the house, then she must still be attached. And even if you did date someone like that, its not safe.
2007-02-23 06:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are times when they both put in equal money as security and eventually they break up but the girl can't come up with money like that again.
So I guess you should believe her and date her?
2007-02-23 08:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't date with her. It's really complicated case. For me, I don't trust a girl like that. Just have no confident for this type of girl.
2007-02-23 06:54:49 · answer #11 · answered by codes1986 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋