i've been going out with my girlfreind for 8months now and she openly says that she loves me but i can't say it back ....because my ex broke my heart in peices like really i did some crazy things after we split that landed me in prison for 1year
Now am with my girlfreind my ex came back to me and said she really misses me and that she made a mistake
and i still love her what should i do?
2007-02-22 22:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by lucky 7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to split with your current gf its not fare on her she has obviously fallen hard for you and from a girls point of view if shes already said she loves you shes already seeing this relationship as long term you and your ex still love each other and you will continue to if you stay with your current gf give your ex another chance if it doesn't work then fine you can move on knowing you did everything you could but let you currant gf find someone who will love her the way she deserves you might hurt her now but it will be a hundred times worse later on good luck
2007-02-22 22:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!
It is a hard thing when relationships break apart. But it sounds as if your former girlfriend was really not good for you. You need to remember, why you all broke up in the first place. Were things really as good as you remember them? Next you need to take a serious look at the woman that you are dating now. Does she help make you a better person? Is she true to you? It sounds as if love is being offered to you by the woman that you are now with. Accept it and let go of the past. This way you will have joy and happiness in your life.
2007-02-22 23:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by LouAnn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the ex girl friend alone! She's broken your heart once and there's no reason why she won't do it again.
Don't be foolish man! You got a girl of 8 months who tells you freely how much she loves and you want to risk throwing this away for your ex who dropped you and was the route cause of you being incarcerated!?!?!?
I know you still got love for your ex and that's cool, but if you don't love the girl you're with now - then do the right thing and let her go. Why should she waste her love and affection for you if you're considering throwing it back in her face to run off with your ex?
2007-02-22 22:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by rachel e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is difficult. I was once the ex girlfriend who had broken up with my boyfriend and then when he got someone else i wanted him back...the difference is i didn't tell him and the reason being was because he was with someone else and i couldn't gaurentee that i wouldn't want to split up with him again in the future and it wasn't fair to ruin his new relation ship...
You have got to weigh up the risks... are you prepared to lose your current girlfriend in order to try again with your ex and then for it not to work out?
Do you love your ex enough to give it another go?
Are you likely to go crazy and end up back in prison if you and your ex don't work out and is she worth it?
There isn't just one person for us you know, there are many many people we could have a wonderful life with... maybe neither of these girls are the right one.
You and your ex broke up for a reason or a multitude of reasons...will those problems and issues you had be resolved now or will they all come back.
if your ex hadn't asked you to come back to her then would you even be thinking about what to do? would you have approached her?
Think it through and make the decision you think is right...
Good luck and keep yourself out of prison, no one is worth a year of your life being un-lived.
2007-02-22 22:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Spring Moon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one, it could be you think you still love your ex as there are unresolved issues there, and it ended so badly and hurt you so much, the other reason you may find is that your scared to love again because of all the pain you went through, the answer will come to you, but in the mean time don't be scared to open up and show the real you? the sensitive and loving you
2007-02-22 23:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend that you are still in love with your ex and stand back and watch the fur fly. Enjoy!
2007-02-22 23:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't betray your present girl friend. Just stop contact with your ex. And love your girl friend now before it's too late.
2007-02-22 22:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by codes1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay away from your ex i fi was you. Sounds like she will just cause you mor heartache. Your girl loves you, give her back the love she deserves.
2007-02-22 23:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
according 2 me dont ditch ur present girlfriend
she loves u
if she is gud 2 u then go with her
otherwise go with ur ex-girlfriend
2007-02-22 23:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by Harkirath Singh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with the one you love
& still be friends with ur g/f
but would you want to put her through what you went through?
2007-02-22 22:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lil' Billz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋