i slept with a guy nd his mate asked was he negood i said ye but he wasnt my best the guy i slept with works with me nd today he attacked me stuck his head to mine nd started to raise his fists nd shouting i shouted back but now hes going round sayin things about me what i can i do
2007-02-22 22:37:35 · 19 answers · asked by traceymad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What?
2007-02-22 22:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try using puncuation and proper words for a start. Second, keep your legs together, don't sleep around and gossip about it afterwards. It's your own fault - how would you feel about it if he commented on your performance to work colleagues? You reap what you sow. But in the short term talk to him somewhere quiet, say sorry 100 times and explain the situation,
2007-02-23 06:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Andy S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep well away, stay near people you know, dont give him the oppertunity to get you alone, im afraid you learnt a lesson . . . dont talk about how sex was with there friends ESPECIALLY if you work with them. they'll get bored soon enough and the gossiping will stop, just keep you head held high and just think your there to work and go home, you dont need any of them to be your friend, you have friends out of work! just go to work do your job and leave!!
good luck x
2007-02-23 07:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already did the damage. You might wind up having to find another job at this point. There is usually a good reason why certain rules are to be observed.
The rule here I think is: do not date co-workers.
2007-02-23 06:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u slept with a guy at work and said hez not the best? why did u tell in the first place? anyways do nothing i guess just ignore him
2007-02-23 06:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Legant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report him as if it were any other colleague - you must have a harassment and bullying policy and surely threats of violence must warrant a warning (if not gross misconduct). Tip for future - be grown up and don't discuss your sex life with mutual work colleagues.
2007-02-23 06:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about the problem and clear the air before it gets worse
2007-02-23 06:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by DR.Frankie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what goes around comes around...
...as terrible as this sounds, you did gossip about someone behind their back about something incredibly personal. It's called Karma. Sorry.
2007-02-23 06:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by dee-lightful 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him properly (& not shouting).
And just make sure you keep your opinions to yourself, because the other person may get hurt (or angry in your case).
2007-02-23 06:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lil' Billz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him........
and if dat dusnt work, go round telling everyone you where being polite when you said he wasnt the best you had had - he totlly sucked!!
2007-02-23 06:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by trash_nt92z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask again in English and break it down I'm having trouble working out what is going on.
2007-02-23 06:49:40 · answer #11 · answered by PIXIE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋