it's so odd, i want to move on,but yet i don't want to forget keep it near, the memory is so powerful it still makes me cry and i avoid remembering every detail. i still haven't tried remembering it feels me with so much emotion. does anyone have such sort of memory...i find that only my momeries make me happy and not the present....
2007-02-22 21:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by proby_girly 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yep, I certainly do, the terrible grief of watching my dad die........ I was holding his hand and telling him to please stay and even though he'd apparently already died tears started sliding down his cheeks......... I do want that memory to be less painfull but I don't think it ever will.............. not something so close to your precious heart........... you have hold on tightly to the precious memories no matter how much it hurts. Don't be afraid to be convulsed with emotion, jus let it happen. Time will come when you'll gloss over the details a bit quicker but such memories are a part of the fibre that is you ......................... PEACE
......... :0)
2007-02-22 22:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Minx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey you have to deal with whatever happened in your past or present so that you can move on. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is the present that is why they call it a gift. Write your feelings about it on paper, read and re-read it over and over until you understand it then put it aside. Writing your feelings down can help solidify them then you can deal with it and put the past where it belongs in the past. Good luck and God bless and put angels on your pillows.
2007-02-23 08:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately i have some but is better to get rid of such memories because they are consuming a lot of psihic energy which you could use in other useful things
so try to forget them...and concentrate on possitive ones
2007-02-23 06:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by miaghysun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i had a terrible child-hood and i am grown now ,but every now &then i get flash-backs of all the bad things and i still cry about them and always wondered why i had to go through all of that!
2007-02-23 08:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by linda bug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many of us have memories that powerful. However you are letting them take over your life. Don't let your past determine your future. You may have to get professional help to get over this. Please don't let any bad memories ruin the rest of your life.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-23 05:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes when i was 19 years old i heart my aunt fellings and she cried thats my memorie to make me cry
2007-02-23 17:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some are happy and some are bad .Don't worry about it .It's a treasure of you
2007-02-23 05:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by three cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but please try by all means available to move .i want to believe that the past shuold make us stronger and be treated as a stepping stone.
2007-02-23 06:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by yamulilo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it still scares the hell out of me when i remember the time the catheter was removed from my manhood and it was not deflated..
2007-02-23 05:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by fat_itchy_worm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-23 05:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋