ok my best friend Had a gf, but they just broked up! shes now been callin me pretty much everyday, we talk, we laugh we go out to the mall, get some drinks, ice cream and all that cool stuff, she is now one of my best girl friends (friend!) and i like her, i want to let her know but it seems to difficult because my best friend was hes bf i have so much respect for my friend but i think i like hes x gf, anny suggestion of what can i do guys!? plz help me and i want honest answers, plz im so confused im not scared of my friend its just the respect i have for him but i think im fallin in love with this chick, she goes to school and she wakes me up at 6am until she gets to her 1st class, mang i think i love this chick but i need answers! i dont know what to dO!!!! :(
2007-02-22 21:42:33 · 14 answers · asked by Eric M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok my best friend Had a gf, but they just broked up! shes now been callin me pretty much everyday, we talk, we laugh we go out to the mall, get some drinks, ice cream and all that cool stuff, she is now one of my best girl friends (friend!) and i like her, i want to let her know but it seems to difficult because my best friend was hes bf i have so much respect for my friend but i think i like hes x gf, anny suggestion of what can i do guys!? plz help me and i want honest answers, plz im so confused im not scared of my friend its just the respect i have for him but i think im fallin in love with this chick, she goes to school and she wakes me up at 6am until she gets to her 1st class, on valentines day she even called me tellin me that she wanted to see me that day! not her bf she wanted to see me! mang i think i love this chick but i need answers! i dont know what to dO!!!! :(
2007-02-22 22:06:04 · update #1
You answered your own question, which do you value more, respect or your actions.
If you dont car about respect then go out with her, if you want her more (and if you loose here its still the same) then just do it....
I personally would never go there but each to there own..
Also depends how she broke up with him in the past, its a minefield, i personally would bo so far from there the distance to the moon would fit in the gap a few times..
2007-02-22 21:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by birthroleplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waking you up daily 6am?
Is she your personal alarm clock or something? No offence =P
But as for your question...
You have problems deciding
- Whether the factor that she's your best friend's ex would affect your relation wif your best friend in the future...
- Whether you should make a move as you like her...
Let's set things straight...
Why not 1st ask your best buddy what he think's before you plan to continue...
2ndly... U like her... But would she go out with you is another factor... From what you are saying... Either you've become her best guy buddy, well to confront on or to get info of ur buddy, or that she has feelings for you...
Don't ask too much...
Do what it neccessary...
Ask your buddy then decide...
2007-02-22 21:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anselmor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider how much you care for each of these people. Do you really want to risk losing your friendship? You may want to talk to him about this if you respect him so much.
Also, you are spending alot of time with this girl for her not to be your girlfriend. You might be reading her wrong. But if you think you really love her, then consider whether you want a complicated relationship, because this will be complicated.
It's not like someone is holding a gun to your head forcing you to choose between these two people, but if you want to make a move on this girl, you will surely be choosing between the two.
There are so many other girls in the world, why this one? huh?
2007-02-22 21:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you actually ought to ask your self how a lot you cost your friendship. Is it worth telling him you imagine his gf is a whore? Do you've info of her doing different adult men? Has she tried to hit on you? look at your buddy and his gf the subsequent time you adult men are jointly is he fairly satisfied ? Do you actually pick to smash what they have over a idea you've? imagine lengthy and tricky earlier you mess with someones relationship because it ought to have severe repercussions in case you do not comprehend what you're speaking about.
2016-12-04 20:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it but dont make it sound too serious, just let him know that there may be the option of you 2 getting hooking up and gauge his reaction, if he says no problem then dont worry about it and go full force cause you gave him the chance to stop it
2007-02-22 21:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehe... good luck you snake of a friend! j/k
hey, if they just broke up and you immediately hooked up with her....looks pretty bad...
btw, do you think a girl can get between you and your buddy??
(on another hand, maybe your buddy did something bad and now her ex wants to get back...)
2007-02-22 21:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by fat_itchy_worm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try reasoning with your best friend and say is it alright if i go out with your ex.
but remember your friends broked up with her so theres no problem who cares go out with her if you like her. But do you like or love?
2007-02-22 21:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur guy friend "hypothetically, what if i dated so and so" if he said, its cool, then go for it, become her bf, if he said, something else, like, i dont like that idea....
well then he'll have to deal with the fact that you like her.
so ask her out already.
2007-02-22 21:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by QsD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!! DO NOT GET WIH THIS GIRL! girls come an go but best friends are forever!
2007-02-22 21:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by angeliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just find some1 else howd you like it if your friend was going out with your girl?
2007-02-22 21:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Laloos™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋