i belong to another state in india-i presently live in gujarat.this is a wonderful place with beautiful memories.my soul is attached to this city. i have all my friends here who shower love and life on me.i need them . this place has taught me a lot-how to live,behave, walk, talk, everything.my dad wants to shift back to his native place but im totally against it . unfortunately i cannot put my wish in front of him. its futile, he wont listen to me. i have tried doing so earlier as well.he is presently at our native place since 10 days.pls give me some practical ideas so that i can stop him from shifting from where we are presently. im just 13, so suggest something which is possible by me!!
2007-02-22 21:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by sourchilli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
MAN WHO SPENT HIS YOUNG THE PLACE IS ALWAYS MEMORABLE FOR HIM. YOUR FATHER SPENT THAT AGE AND HAVE SAME FRIENDS AS YOU ARE HAVING HERE SO HE IS COMPELLING YOU TO LIVE THERE. NOW YOU STAND ON YOUR LEG AND EARN HERE AND SPEND LIFE HERE.
2007-02-22 21:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I have been moving in between cities from the age of three. I know it is difficult for u to leave ur place and move to another place becoz u have a lot of friends and ur memories attached to that place. But think, the place where u are going to go has people as well, u can make friends there as well. Who knows u might like that place more than u like the place u r in now. Like I told u I have been moving places, its helping me now when Iam thinking of going for higher education, I can think of going to any one of the cities I have been in, as I know the place very well and the language also. If it does not suit me I can always go back to another place which I think might suit me.
Think practically. U will now argue with ur parents and they might even let u stay in the place u want now, but being only thirteen do u think u can stay in a house all alone, manage to clean the house up and cook the food u need and then also wash ur clothes. I don't think u can do all that work and still manage to have time to study. Whereas if u go with ur parents u can have freedom from all these things and study and have a good time to urself. U can always think of coming back after u finish ur studies for ur job or when ur a bit more older and are ready to take up responsibilities.
Good luck to u.
2007-02-23 11:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a new experience. Since you are young you have to move around and see different places and the experience its give. So don't worry about it too much, go with it. Once I was in the same position as you. You are only moving the state but we moved to a different country. I hope the new place give you much more nice memorise and still you always keep your old memories. Once you are older you can choose where you want to live.
Now enjoys your new state.
2007-02-23 06:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by gowry k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is an adventure. You are comfortable where you are now and that makes life easy. Take a risk and see what your father's native place has. Life is change. You never know what doors will open to you in a new place.
2007-02-23 07:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ultimately your father's decision. But when you are an adult, you can go back and live your life there. Just be thankful that you now know where you want to be the rest of your life. Keep in contact with your friends and go back when you are a little older.
2007-02-23 07:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur DECISION of not going itself IS WRONG.it would have been rt had u been 20+ but no,not now.change of place doesnt affect friendship,u can always stay in contact thru mails,letters,visit them in holidays.take shifting as an opportunity to expand ur friend circle,who knows u may find same type of good friends there too.its better u join ur parents,cause they come first at all times (when ur ill/depressed/anything).nobody can think the best for us besides our parents.
2007-02-24 09:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by mots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can tel what u feel to ur father if u r afraid u can always take ur mother into ur confidence. Try this. As u dont want to leave this pplace as u have ur friends this applies with ur father. Best of luck.
2007-02-23 06:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by peacock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gujarat is a big state, which city do u live in ??
2007-02-23 06:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Software_pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to stay than try.....
2007-02-23 09:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by shuvadip d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋