girls please help me!
2007-02-22 20:30:19 · 8 answers · asked by xyz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't feel badly about being 21 and still don't have a girlfriend. There are plenty of guys out there in the same boat!
Here's some suggestions that I gave my little brother who finally started dating at age 25.
Find an activity you like to do in your spare time that would involve meeting people, not just girls. Sure you could go to bars to meet girls, but what kind of girl?
Church is always a good place to meet and get to know girls, and the larger churches have singles groups that do different activities together. I met my first husband at church.
Activities could include politcal, educational, community service, sports, etc etc etc. Just getting out there and mixing it up with people. Going to concerts in your area, if you live near or in a large city that are probably scads of singles activities every weekend.
I told my brother to be friends first. But he told me he had that already covered, that girls just thought of him as the comedian and did not take him seriously. I asked him what kind of girls was he attracted to? He said petite 100 lb girls. I told him he needed to understand that a man 6 foot 4 inches and over 300 lbs needed to be a bit more flexible with his physical requirements for a woman. Once he did that, he started dating.
Just try to have fun with whatever activities you get involved in. Your passion in your activity is what is going to make you attractive. Okay? Now get out there! You will do fine!
2007-02-22 20:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but I can help.
First of all. Do you have any friends that are girls, becuase that is where you would have the most fun. Fun as in they like to do the same things as you.
Or join a club, or group and there are girls in those and after a while you should get to know a couple of them and probably end up with a girlfriend.
(These have been from my experiences)
2007-02-22 20:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has nothing to do if u have a GF or not... Nobody is gonna chuck u out of this world jus becos u don have a GF.... Be cool n wait for the rite girl to walk into ur life till then jus have fun...cos GF means Commitment...
2007-02-22 20:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by yer eyay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to girls and getting to know them like friends. If one of them finds you attractive, you can pursue a romantic relationship with her. But don't start off going for the relationship, you might scare her off. Be confident and relaxed and know that she is out there and you will surely find each other :)
2007-02-22 20:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask u some questions...
- Do you just want to make friends with girls or do you want more than that...
- Do you think its realli that neccessary for me to tell you stuff to aid you if it might in turn hurt others?
Be yourself... Nobody wants to hang out with someone who they don't know well... Start things slow and such... No more aid other than this... You gotta be more specific...
2007-02-22 20:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anselmor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can wait for a girl. or if you have a girl you like talk to her, get to know her, then ask her little by little or just throw it at her. let her know how you feel.
2007-02-22 20:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 20 called suzan.
i am in need of boy friend really.
2007-02-22 20:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself! and relax!
2007-02-22 20:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by tomkat1528 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋