I think all men CAN bring a woman to orgasm.. just that too darn many can't be bothered to put in the effort :( They should have figured out by now that it takes more than a few moments of willy-wagging to do it for most women :)
2007-02-22 20:25:22
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answered by endorable 4
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you bring up a good point with 2 sides to that coin.
As a partner with 2 hands, a tongue, and a johnson, I find it very hard to believe that most guys cant seem to bring a girl to orgasm. The way I see it, is that a guy will finish his business pretty much nomatter what, so the least he can do is show his partner some attention and let her go first.
However! However, I have come across a girl who could not finish. Its usually girls that have hang ups with their body. In that case, they have a difficult time enjoying the love making session.
So it takes two to tango, and theres always to arguements.
But, asfar as a guy not helping a girl experience what most guys automatically will, well thats just selfish, plain and simple.
Its not really that hard..and if you dont know, ask the girl to help you find her triggers.
but like i said, theres 2 sides to that coin
2007-02-22 20:27:18
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answered by writersbIock2006 5
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Your expectation of men's performance is too high. It is not easy for men to get the women to climax as their organs do not have 'eyes' or directions to stimulate the women's sensitive parts. That is why lots of women relies a lot on self guided fingers, vib, dildo etc. anything that she can directly stimulate the sensitive organs. That stimulation can only be felt by you and not by his prick. This prick has no brain and eye. lol. What you see on xxx movies etc are performers who r trained to *** or come like hell. They are injected with stimulants to come a lot but whether they really reach their orgasms is unknown. They are paid by the load they can shot out. LOL.
Another problem is the timing of 'coming' is not shared by both. To enjoy, both must 'come' together. Never leave a gurl to settle on her own. This is the biggest mistake that most men makes. They are selfish. I understood this and I will make sure she reaches her orgasm before mine.
2007-02-22 20:37:20
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answered by Nice Guy 2
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I've learned this from experience: You have to let the guy know what you like. That way they will keep doing whatever it is that is going to make you go OMG. Sometimes though no matter what the guy does it just won't happen. But make sure you know how to please yourself cause as the old saying goes if you can't get someone to do it right you might as well just do it yourself.
2007-02-22 20:26:12
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answered by angry@fate 2
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Umm no offense, but you seem very superficial. I mean, do you date guys and get ''serious'' with them, as you stated, to actually care about them, and create a steady relationship with them? Or do you just get with them, so you can sleep with them, and get an orgasm. If you are frustrated over guys who can't give you an orgasm, then thats not really a serious relationship, because it sounds like you had many of those. You simply just want them to **** you, and make you feel hella good. Not to be harsh honey, but theres much more to love and life, than just orgasms.
good luck to you on finding your ultimate orgasm giver though.
Saphire.
2007-02-22 20:31:09
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answered by Saphire04 2
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2 out of every 5
2007-02-22 22:31:06
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answered by coconaut 2
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the reason you dont orgasm is because sleeping with heaps of different guys you cant click to have the sexual experience you yearn for ! Take to the bedroom no inhibitions know what you want tell him what you like and don't like ask him about his likes and dislikes dont blame him for no orgasms I am guessing he cums easy so make it known what you want as well !!GEEEZZZZ like its so hard lmao I mean complicated
2007-02-22 20:32:04
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answered by yoursandmine05 2
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I don't know about others but I always make sure the woman is satisfied many times before I
worry about myself. Except my current G/F.
She wears out before I'm halfway there. But I don't hold it against her. She tries.
2007-02-22 20:28:30
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answered by redman 5
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orgasm is a skill u need to co operate and show your needs ,and he also ,working it out will make u relax and partner also,and ace the act into mutual ultimate orgasms for both
2007-02-22 20:27:28
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answered by reifguy 4
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haha you're funny. i think u should just straight up ask a guy if he's good in bed before u strike up a real conversation....ask it jokingly and seriously at the same time. stop wasting your time with panzies.
2007-02-22 20:23:52
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answered by ryan 3 3
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