Honestly now, I've known plenty of guys that acted as though they cared that their woman was sexually satisfied. Then, when they do not bring the woman to orgasm they act upset even though they hardly tried in the first place? Why not just be honest and say "sorry honey, I really only wanted you to please me and now I'm gonna watch some TV".
2007-02-22 19:52:57 · 13 answers · asked by stardust23716 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they really do care.... no one wants to be thinking that she is just waiting for you to get it over with!
2007-02-22 19:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Shakespeare, William 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say things that tells me you have not understood the softer side of men when it comes to sex.
It is absolutely important to men that women also get off about the same time or immediately after. They do not want to be selfish. This is a two way street and both must equally enjoy.
Knowing that men come first before women, he always asks was that good, did you enjoy, did you come etc..
A truly loving couple do care for each other in everything they do and sex is on the top of the list of "everything they do".
By saying "....why men ACT like they care...." etc.. is denegrating men. You probably have not had a gentle, caring man yet.
2007-02-22 20:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes! that's a virtriolic dose of heavy cynicism! I get the impression that you can't find any good reasons right now to be interested in somebody else's sexuality, and you couldn't care less if you satisfy your man. maybe you have the wrong partner. maybe you're expecting too much. have patience. have love. be alone if you need to be. love and sex are all about mutuality. if you don't have that or you're not getting it, then, well, honey, you are hardly the only person in the world with that problem. what are you going to do about it? think about that.
2007-02-22 20:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow do I feel bad for you. Most mature men know how a woman's body works. Not every time is a mind blowing experience but you bask in the feeling of being together. The good ones know the difference and know its not all about them.
2007-02-22 19:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they do care, but they don't realise how much effort is involved.
It seems to me that it's pretty easy for most guys to reach orgasm.
If they really don't care then perhaps they are conditioned to feel like they should care, and so can't bring themselves to be honest.
2007-02-22 20:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to please my women with my tongue, this way I can taste it and know that she's pleased! This isn't always the way? Why because my women is always wanting to suck me! She tells me that I'm perfect in lenght & taste! Also she always tells me, even after 17yrs. being together that I'm still the best lover she's ever known! & Tasted! She even tells me that I can never get enough, that I'm too much for her at times when I'm really on a roll?????? Not bad for a 50year old man,with a strong s_x drive!!!
2007-02-22 20:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you prefer that he didn't care if you enjoyed it and was only interrested in self-satisfaction?
Sex is something that BOTH the man and the woman can enjoy.
if they are hardly trying and SAY they wanted to give you pleasure... they are just saying the words to make you feel like they cared.
2007-02-22 19:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just men, i have no some women to do that too, it is just the way some people are, but i take pride and the fact my girl cums everytime, and normaly when i want/plan for her to.
2007-02-22 19:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Smurfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A REAL man would see that she always gets her fill FIRST....If a man doesnt enjoy making his girl soak the sheets,then he is a selfish BOY....T.V.....You.....T.V. ...You ,,,,I'm taking the wet sheets over the T.V.!! Some REAL men do care to see their girl orgasm first and often!!! P.S......FATBOY rules!!!! LOL
2007-02-22 20:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they'll feel like users if you dont get off to
2007-02-22 19:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋