I know my girl loved me, she shows that and proved that everyday, but sometime (more times then i care to admit) she makes me feel like she doesnt find me very sexualy desireable. And it's not that she turns down sex alot, granted more times then i would like, but it's the little things. Alot of times she will come sit down to watch t.v. and sit on the other sofa as far as she can from me. I have come to her house and it takes her like 30-40 mins befor she really does anything w/ me beyond saying hi. Now that i am writting it down it seems kinda silly, but sometimes i do feel undesireable to her. Am i making to much out of this?
2007-02-22 19:43:36 · 10 answers · asked by Smurfy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she doesn't mean to make it seem like she doesn't find you desireable.. It could just be that she doesn't want to be or seem too clingy and annoy you when she doesn't sit next to you on the couch.. Also about the sex situations.. I'm pretty sure that it isn't anything about you not being desireable to her, it may just be that she's not a very sexual person or she's afraid of you two turning into a sexual based relationship even if she knows it wouldn't turn into that..
I hope everything works out but all I can really say is sit down, have a talk with her, and try to be patient and understanding on why she's being the way she is sometimes and be patient with her until she can change things about the problem/situation that way both of you can work out the problem/situation.. I am very sure that she will be honest and willing to try to change things to make both of you happy..
Good Luck.
2007-02-23 12:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you have been together,If you have been only been together for a little while you should be still in the first stage of the dating.
But if you have been together for a couple of years than she might be in the nesting stage where she is quite happy in your relationship.
Some women like to have their own space and to her it might be just sitting on the lounge by herself and she knows that your not going anywhere.
She might be going though some of her own issues at the moment. I have felt the same way I have been with my husband for 4 years now and we used to do everthing together,cuddle up on the lounge things like that and now things have changed so much in the last couple of months and i feel alone,
rejected and it hurts alittle.
Just be patient and try to sit down and talk to her and find out what could be bothering her.
You won't know until you ask.All the best!
2007-02-22 23:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of reasons why this is happening.
If there was a sexual relationship before and now none, she just may be really comfortable now.
Or maybe her feelings for you have changed.
In some cases, a medical illness or medication can change a person's sexual appetite.
Good luck Hon.
2007-02-22 20:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of women. They are funny people women. So yes it's possible. Women are all about emotion and very little about the physical. She may like you because you complement and fill something in her emotions which to them is all that matters or in any case should matter. So given a choice between have super sex and being fulfilled emotionally they would rather be emotionally satisfied. I know the situation must be frustrating for you, being a man and thinking in terms of sex equating love. Take solace in knowing that she is happy with the situation as it is. Abou the sex, maybe u can come to a mutually beneficial arrangement? As i said to them sex and emotion are two diffent things get me? ;)
2007-02-22 20:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by nocirpac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how long you have been in your relationship. some times people get comfortable and take for granted he/she loves me every thing is OK. I would try to do something different, spontaneous that would totally knock her off her feet next time she comes over. If that fails you guys need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk about your relationship
2007-02-22 20:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by amthlone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 03:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would not be the regular love in that case
it would be a platonic love
like the love for a grandfather or child .or dog
not a marriage kind of love.
2007-02-22 19:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the man,s will care them sexualy
2007-02-22 19:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she just likes you better as a friend? that sucks. find another girl who can't keep her hands off you. every person deserves that.
2007-02-22 19:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if she loves you & is not in love w/ you.
2007-02-22 19:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋