Okay so my little sister is 12 turning 13 and she told me that she's had a crush on a boy for 4 years now!!!
she really likes him and she asked me how to tell if he likes her???I dunno please help , what sort of things would a boy about aged 11,12 or 13 do if he had a crush on her???
2007-02-22 19:36:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well at that young age there are differences that are very well misread but just as real anyway. Boys are not as mature so they will likely do inappropriate things that seem silly or crazy to a young lady who might be a bit more mature at the same age. While it is normal to start noticing attractions at this age, it is important to remind your sister that school is number one priority and for her future, education is where it's at. So don't get all wrapped up with guys right now. Fun dates are about it for a while---and who will you date??? The guy who seems to return the interest, showing a bit of maturity and courtesy, and self respect. Not doing the silly stuff young boys will probably do---goofy stuff, silly talk, that buddy punch thing, show off stuff, idiotic clothing, calls or e mail about goofy stuff.....name calling--anything ffor attention. Just don't let it get out of hand---like I said--keep it fun and light. Girls are emotional creatures and men are visually stimulated--action stuff----very few get it right at a young age---welcome to young love. Good luck
2007-02-22 19:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I'm guessing this is something you really wasn't prepared for. You're the big brother in the case, so you can tell her how she can ask him, but then you can tell the boy who she likes that you're her big brother and if he does ANYTHING to hurt her you're going after him. It's the classic big bro' scenario and you're the star. Show her that you're still her bro and love her. Make sure she knows NO guy can take your place as the man in her life. You gotta keep a close eye on it and be sure of what goes on.
Laterz,
Marcus
2007-02-23 03:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most little boys at that age dont know how to tell a girl that they like them so they usually pick on them a lot. And in reality they really like them.
2007-02-23 03:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Byrd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is still at the age of kids. She should consider studies no worry on crushing to someone once again.
2007-02-23 03:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Baiba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear plz tell your sister that give that guy a chocolate and a red rose which is a sign of love,and invite that guy in ur home to play some games.ok this will work definitely.my best wishes are with you.
2007-02-23 03:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'd be nervous and shy around her....and have all the other feelings she has....puberty is a ***** but ya gotta go thru it for another 5 or 6 years. Good luck.
2007-02-23 03:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by superbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like girls yet because of puberty & all. But your sister could always write him a note asking him in a subtle way or get one of her friends to ask him. Girls tend to do that kind've stuff.
2007-02-23 03:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* children these days... Well usually depending on how the boy acts usually he would get nervous around her if he liked her, he would laugh or *at times* pick on her nothing really to dramatic.... It's hard to tell with boys that young.
2007-02-23 03:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by kahaluiboi808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know that. you're a boy and you've been in that age. :)
2007-02-23 03:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by sterling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why these kids going to back with sex?
2007-02-23 03:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋