We were flirting alot and I'd have him blushng, smiling at the sight of me and he'd catch quick glances at me from afar. I thought he was cute and so I asked him out, he said yes and I waited a few months before making plans.
By the time I saw him again, he didn't want to talk to me and he was very short with his words. When I asked him about our date, he said he was in a relationship and he's exclusive.
So now I'm pondering over this. Why isn't he as into me as before?
2007-02-22 19:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he is involved with someone else and he is trying to stay true to that relationship.
-NmD!
2007-02-22 19:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it ended when you waited a few months before making plans. Did you talk to him during this time? If you didn't keep in close contact, at least over the phone, he may have thought you were just not very interested. He may have seen the wait as you dragging your feet or having second thoughts. So while you were waiting, he obviously met someone he likes alot and lost interest in you. It happens. Better luck next time........and next time, set up the date within a few days of asking the guy out so he knows you're interested! Good luck.
2007-02-23 03:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Gayle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You waited a few MONTHS. A month is a long time.
He isn't into you as before because apparently in the time you were waiting, he found someone else and is now in an exclusive relationship.
He has someone else to occupy his thoughts, and he would feel like he was cheating if he was as into you as he was before. Besides, even if he did have feelings for you, he wouldn't act on them because of the relationship - unless he was the cheating sort.
2007-02-23 03:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry things didn't work out. When you wanted to wait a few months,I wonder if he seemed agreeable to that? If so, then once again it's too bad he couldn't stick with what would had been an agreement in the first place.
2007-02-23 03:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Toddacanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked him out but then didn't make plans for a few months that's probably what killed it. If this guy was really into you, he probably found it strange that no plans were made and figured you asked him out for some other reason and weren't infact into him. Therefore he chose to make other plans instead of sitting around waiting. Normally you ask someone out and make plans right away.
2007-02-23 03:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Gimmer05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see there is always 2 sides to every story, you mention that you asked him out but waited a few months befor making plans. well did it ever cross your mind that he may have thought that you were playing games? and that you may have lost interest in him? thats probably why he was so cold torwards you when he seen you...he felt like you had him waiting and i think thats what turned him off....thats why he told you he was in a relationship when he saw you, i think it was more like revenge on his part.... so next time when you ask someone out don't wait a few months to make plans b/c it makes it look as though your not interested and alot of ppl don't like to play games...though you may have been serious about it but he didnt think so.
2007-02-23 04:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, because you waited a few months, no guy is going to wait a few months for some girl he just met. Ever.
2007-02-23 03:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ziggy Stardust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem could have been that you waited to long to set a date. And that made him feel as if you weren't into him so he decided to move on.
2007-02-23 03:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Byrd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because he is in a relationship now. Move on. Life is too short and have fun.
2007-02-23 03:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mYou just waited too long and he got involved with someone he likes . At least hes a good enough guy and did not take you out when he was seeing someone else.
2007-02-23 03:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by SE7EN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋