and he moved away before we actually did the "BIG DEED" I met him in high school.He told he he loved he and all that stuff and I loved him. After he moved away he stopped calling. I didn't talk to him for about a year and a half until I found him on Myspace. He has a girlfriend and now a baby. he told me we could be friends and that he was sry for not calling. Now When I send him messages he reads them but never answers back. I don't know what to do about it. What do you do with someone you love but can't be with and they won't speak to you. I told him I was upset about what had happened between us and he said everything was cool.I have never done anything to him so I don't see why he would ignore me like this. What do I do??
2007-02-22 19:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by nikki H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to accept that he is with another girl and now has a child.Its hard, and he obviously doesn't want to hurt you by telling you outright that he doesn't want to speak to you. You should read between the lines, you will meet another guy and you will find better qualities in him than the last guy.
2007-02-22 19:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words for u baby: Grow up!!! You gals just beg to be hurt and when it happens you start to say that men are beasts. The guy has done everything to discourage you but you're still begging to be hurt. He has a baby and a girlfriend he can't be more than just a friend to you. And you are upset because he won't reply to your mails?!!!!! He ignores you cause he cares for your feelings if you care for his let him come around by himself. Jeeeezz!
2007-02-23 03:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by nocirpac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gonna be using you when he needs someone. Thats not good. I've jst gone through a relationship like that and i was the one that was really hurt. Girl, give him up please. Before you get hurt 'BIG TIME.' You need to walk up to him say that ur giving him up and then leave. It will so talk a load off. Just think how are you going to get into another relationship with your heart telling you 'He's the One!!!'? give him up.... give yourself some alone time and contiune with your life. take care of yourself and limme know what happenes next!!
2007-02-23 04:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA! ur story almost sounds like mine! except he answered me back. Anways, we started long distance dating, but we broke up and a week later he got married to some chick. I have always wanted him to be my first, but now...i know i must move on. So do you!!! Leave him be!! If he is not answering you back then its a sign to leave him alone!! Move on with your life, its not worth to drag this out..i mean! Go out, have fun, and just keep a open mind!!
Good Luck!!
2007-02-23 03:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that his life has changed now that he has a baby, maybe he is giving his child more time and devotion then answering messages...I think it is time for you to move on
2007-02-23 03:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may be, you have to move on. He obviously has. just be thankful that you didnt give your virginity that would make letting go alot harder. stop sending messages to him and eventually within time, you will forget about your feelngs for him. try to keep yourself busy, surround yourself with people who love you like your friends and just have fun... meet other guys.... your still young have fun
2007-02-23 03:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man jus ignore him..he seems2hv chngd and if hes gt a baby as wel u myt as wel jus get over him=)loll
2007-02-23 03:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, of he has a kid, there is really nothing left for you to do!
i say move on and find someone better for you.
2007-02-23 03:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ally K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knw u r ready to do any thing for him.and its realy hard for u to forget him but trust me go on with ur life and may be u wil get ur match....its too too late...dnt complicate his life too.....dnt make him cheat his wife....u r a girl u knw hw she wil get hurt ...............
2007-02-23 04:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Deep eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesent like you.
2007-02-23 03:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋