My man is like a pogo stick in bed. Not saying it’s bad. It's just that he doesn't know how to slow down and appreciate what we are doing. He say's it's not his style to go slow. But I love it. So my question is how can I get him to slow down????? And make love to me?
2007-02-22 18:36:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like your man is more preoccupied with his own pleasure than with yours. That's a bad sign. Explain to him that if he's unwilling to give you what you need, then what good is he to you? There are other men who aren't so selfish in bed.
2007-02-22 18:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a selfish Lover. Make love to him, slowly, draw it out, let him enjoy the gift of sensual love, try some karma sutra. Give him the book for his birthda present. Most people will say speak to him, BUT in all truth you could end up offending him and having him withdraw from you.
Leanr a technique that would please him a slow and easy beat so to speak, or ride him, once your on top he cant control it as much as other positions, and slowly, make love to him.
If none of this works, with hold sex lol, and enjoy yourself make sure he is watching its a kick and also turns guys on for some reason.
Anyway very good luck happy sensual sex.
2007-02-23 02:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by disturbedxxcalmness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him that slow love making is what makes you feel appreciated and cared for. Tell him that he can do it his way half the time, but that you want it your way the other half, and if he objects then tell him that if he doen't think any more of you than that then maybe he should look for someone else because you just aren't going to be happy with that kind of lovemaking in the long term. This should wake him up.
2007-02-23 02:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Big Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit him down and try talking to him openly and honestly. if he cannot respect ur wishes and do thiungs that u like as well, u need to move on! he sounds really selfish to me! good luck!!!
2007-02-23 02:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him how to make love to you, make love to yourself, and make him watch you,until your done, maybe hell like what he sees and slow down for the view nexttime around
2007-02-23 02:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candles, whip cream, bubble bath, massage & champange.
2007-02-23 02:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex until he can figure out that you have to pleasured right as well.
2007-02-23 02:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by preppy624 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋