I need some advice! My boyfriend has recently gotten into motorcycles and going to races. I have no problem with him going out of town to races but he was planning on going next weekend to Daytona "Bike week". I looked on the internet to see what kind of events go on there because I have always heard it was wild. Well, there are NO races going on and all there will be is partying. All the photos were of naked women walking around, wet t-shirt contests, etc.-- really nothing to do with motorcycles. I told him I did not feel comfortable with him going, because I was never invited. He got mad and said he wasn't going and now he is making me feel bad. Was I wrong???
2007-02-22 18:15:56 · 12 answers · asked by *AH AH* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason he said I don't need to go is because no one else is taking there wives/girlfriends. He is going with my father and his friends, which are married, but I know he's not gonna be glued to his side the whole time! What aggrevates me the most is the fact that he never takes me on a vacation-
2007-02-22 18:33:48 · update #1
No, you're not wrong at all. You didn't tell him he couldn't go. He's acting like a baby. If you went to a huge party with hot dudes in nothing but short shorts, he'd be mad too. He's just trying to guilt trip you into letting him go. If he really wants to spend time chasing chicks without you, let him. You can't control someone and he'll probably use you saying you're not comfortable with this idea as a reason to cheat. Not saying it will happen but, he could turn it around on you. It all sounds really fishy. He didn't invite you and then you find out there's no races going on. I think he just wants to sow his oates a bit. That would be fine if he was single. He's hiding way too much. If he keeps throwing tantrums over this, consider dumping him. Sounds like he's more interested in trying to laid by hoochies than respecting your feelings.
2007-02-22 18:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you are boyfriend and girlfriend, but you are not married.
Did he ever specifically say he was going to "the races" or did he just say bike week?? If he never said it was for the races, then he didn't lie to you about it. I don't know where you all are located, but around here, bike week means one big old party from sunup to sunset.
I think he should be able to go. Just because there are women there, and lots of partying does not mean he will end up cheating on you, or doing something wrong. And he may resent the fact that you are trying to tell him what to do, which may have a negative impact on your future with him.
Do you trust him?
And have you asked him if he would okay with taking you to it??
2007-02-22 18:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by slpkwp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u werent wrong.. he wasnt clear to u about going to races.. and he really wasnt going to int he first place once u found out what was really going on down there. he should have invited u at the least. and he diefnitely shouldnt be mad at u. even if he still wanted to go, he should not be mad at u. he should be understanding of ur feelings too
2007-02-22 18:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by peaches87 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your intention is just to protect him from committing any mistakes, its okay. why did he get mad? in the 1st place it was an outritght lie when he said there will be race. what if u did check? u will not find out right? ask him what are his intentions for going there since there will be no race. i mean, its like he's lying too..be cautious
2007-02-22 18:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong at all. You told him how you felt. That's good. He just seems to be acting like a baby about all this. If he continues to be upset with you, tell him to picture himself in YOUR shoes... see it from YOUR perspective. He's not acting like a good boyfriend if he lies to you to go hang out with naked women...
2007-02-22 18:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how would you feel if you wanted to go somewhere and he gave you an attitude to not go? you'll do the same thing he did, get mad and make him feel bad..
2007-02-22 18:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by nocureforthispain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest confrontation is hardly ever wrong. If you had just avoided it, that would've been wrong. Just because he was angry with you doesn't mean that you were wrong. He was angry because he was guilty.
2007-02-22 18:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right, why cant he take you along anyway? Sounds like he wants to cheat on u.
2007-02-22 18:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you wernt right acorrding to this extreme biis and guikltiy confession
2007-02-22 18:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by krazy miss speler 06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋