My bf and I just got back together, and the other day i found out that he is going to a different school, because of at the other school they have a hockey scholorship. He is going is going in like a month. im really sad about it cause the only time i basicly get to see him is at school because he has soo much hockey. should i break up with him or should i stay???? ( oh yea, he is a cocky kind of guy, and i know when he goes to the other school, he is gonna flirt with the other girls..)
2007-02-22 18:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babygirl, i feel you here. We have all gone through this craziness, of should i stay or should i go kind of mind frame but i think in your case you should let go, and i know its gonna be hard but look at another school you dont know what he's doing and with who. You can be strong and also, you will find a new guy, one that you can see who's not obsessed with hockey or anything (except maybe you...lol) So Girl dump this guy and find a man whose more interested with you than playing hockey all the damn time.
2007-02-22 18:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by ~*BabyGirlpinky06*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should enjoy the time you have left to be together and when he is going to go off to school you should break it off. You could say that long distance relationships are hard at best so you want both of you to be free to go ahead and live your lifes with out being tied down. If things feel the same when he next come home you can always pick it up again and if it is meant to be, it will be somehow. If not no one gets hurt because you will both be free.
2007-02-23 02:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasn't such a flirt, than I would tell you to give it a chance. However, considering his arrogance and flirtatiousness, I would seriously question whether you should have gone out with him in the first place, and whether or not you should continue. I'm not telling you to break up: Just consider how much you trust him, and base your decision on that.
2007-02-23 02:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like your excuse to break up with him. (because you think he's gonna flirt)
why does the guy have to be in the same school as you to make a relationship work? do you not trust them? do you not go out?
2007-02-23 02:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by nocureforthispain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. It sounds like you already know the right thing to do.
At your age there's no reason to stay together. You'll just set yourself up to get hurt.
2007-02-23 02:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Big Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter broke up with her bf due to lack of time together. He's still in college and she already graduated. They still see each other in their groups. (they play paintball) and will possibly get back together when he graduates. In the meantime, calling things off took a lot of pressure off both of them.
2007-02-23 02:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you already made your choice but seek confirmation. You know you should leave him so do it. He is just gonna hurt you and youre gonna feel a fool so leave with your pride intact and walk away.
2007-02-23 02:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its better to wait if things will workout. you should trust him. just decide to leave him if in any case, there is a hint that he is cheating or something. its not nice to give up just becoz you feel that he's going to flirt or something...assess your feelings first before u make any decision...u might regret it if u break right now...
2007-02-23 02:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. there's plenty of other options. you'll just drive yourself crazy with the loneliness and guilt associated with a long-distance relationship.
2007-02-23 02:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's too busy for you. Well at least tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about you. Let his response be your answer
2007-02-23 02:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋