I'm just confused... I was just wondering if anyone could tell me how you KNOW when you're bisexual, or if you're just jealous of another girl or something... any help?
2007-02-22 18:08:44 · 11 answers · asked by Emmi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, it's not like a trend for me... there's just this one girl, so I don't know if it's just random or it means something more. but I've never been attracted to another girl before as far as I know
2007-02-22 18:12:56 · update #1
So, you have your first girl crush on a girl??
When you are with guys do you think of girls?
Is it total admiration for this girl or just you want to kiss her?
I think this "bi" feeling is something a lot of young women/teens feel and "experiment" with.
Sooner or later, one will come to learn which they are more attracted to. guys or gals.
I feel there is a long spectrum of on the line of gay---------------striaght. and there's room in the middle for bi, or to swing both sides.
Always use protection.
www.talksexwithsue.com
Sue has an awesome site that discusses sexual things and feelings.
Is she attracted to you?
Do you feel the same way around her as you do a boy you have a crush on?
It's normal to feel anyway you do........and choice?
I think you can chose to experiment, but If you are gay you know.
AND if you like to have fun with both sides, then you are bi.
only time will tell. And it just sounds to me that you are very sexually intested in teachers, guys, now a girl.
It's normal to have feelings for all spectrums of people at your age.
Just have fun, don't take things too seriously, if you do experiement.....read up on how to protect yourself against std's.
and learn all you can before you give your body to another person.
Like you said before, you are only 15........you have a lot of time ahead of you to meet and greet, and go out with a variety of people and find out who you really are.
Don't let other's judge you.
and i know this is an adult sex ed site
www.talksexwithsue.com
but if you can, go educate yourself about love, bi-sexuality
and what books Sue reccomends for those who are bi-courios.
Don't let anyone shame you.
Be proud of who you are.
You are a young gal, asking questions and gathering information.
**and yes, i've had 1 or 2 super girl crushes in my life*** and we didn't do anything. I think we just admired each other soooooooo much, we got it confused. We both liked guys too.
Do keep your private life private, and be with someone you can trust.
you can ask your mom, aunt, or older female these questions.......like did they have a female friend that they admired so much, or had so much in common with, it felt like a crush?
***i think she will giggle and open up and talk to you!***
honesty and open communication is best.
you will never know until you try.
but please use protection, and wait
talk first
2007-02-22 18:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they are. They're the ones living inside their bodies, not you, I think they'd have a better idea what they're attracted to than you. Personally, I assume everyone I meet is bi until proven otherwise.
2016-03-29 08:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way i found out i was bi is because i found my self attracted to men and woman, not youre average "oh, she's pretty" but more like " wow im in love with this girl" and i am also attracted to men and have been in love with them as well. Also if you fantasize about the same sex or get turned on by both sexes its a good indicator. Just try messing around with both and if you like them both your bi. If you dont Like the same sex your straight and if you totally prefer the same sex your gay. Its that simple.
2007-02-22 18:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by ~*BabyGirlpinky06*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find both men & women sexually exciting/attractive then you are bi-curious...
If after having had sex with both men and women, you still feel this
way, then you are probably Bi....
Bi girls are Hot....
2007-02-22 18:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you are bisexual if you want to have sex with both men and women.
2007-02-22 18:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by slaughter114 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a trend in middle school. you know if you can go both ways. can you? theres your answer
2007-02-22 18:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by nocureforthispain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..when you want to be Bi. I don't believe people are just born Bi or whatever. It's a choice. Do you want to be Bi? straight? gay? It's up to you. :)
2007-02-22 18:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you start having feelings and thoughts of girls/ or boys what ever sex u r (not meaning to b rude i just cant tell cause NO avatar)
you accidently start flirting withg girls / or guys wat eva
and then you keep having dreams about the same sex as you and you constantly have day dreams about his or her
2007-02-22 18:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by ҉Single Chick~a~Dee҉ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like hotdogs and tacos your bi
2007-02-22 18:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
y dnt u experiment and see which one you like the best i guess
2007-02-22 18:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by HeSaid"MAMA" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋