Im 21 and she's 19. We've been having sex since 2005, but lately Ive just been having thoughts about if she were to get pregnant, I could not handle that right now, nor she and I also would like to just hold off having sex for the sake of my religion (I'm a catholic) She uses the pill, but still, I know its not 100% effective. Shes told me that she would stop having sex with me if the day came where I wanted to wait until we were married, so I know she wouldnt have a problem with it. Its just me...I dont know if I could resist the temptation...Any advice?
2007-02-22 17:58:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop now. Because sooner or later she's gonna get pregnant. And I know the both of you don't want kids right now. So, just stop while you've got the chance.
2007-02-22 18:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by preppy624 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a condom every time if u are goin to do it. i know it is not 100% effective but coupled with the pill being taken at the same time everyday the chances of a pregnancy would be remote. If u really do want to abstain because of ur religious beliefs ( u would still be a virgin if u were that much of a believer, but anyway) find another activity u can enjoy together such as a game or sport or some sort of social activity. You can still sexually satisfy one another without actually having sex. U can try mutual masturbation, oral sex, greek, kissing, fondling etc.
2007-02-22 18:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
I really know how that feels i was in the same spot 2 years ago, the best advise i can give you is to speak to her and come to a agreement with were your going to stop when temtation arises. but when you see temtations on the way just turn around and walk away. I know its easy to say hey Im a Christian and it was hard for me to and yes for the first couple of weeks i faild but in the end you start resisting the temtation more and gets easier. to start of with go on your knees brother and start talking to God, cause you wont be able to do it on your own. Hope everything works out for you. God Bless.
2007-02-22 18:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jacques G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wait until you're married? if you've already had sex with her, what's the point of waiting? it's not like you're saving anything.
if you're concerned about the risk of her getting pregnant, keep her on the pill and use a condom as well. or get her something more effective. i heard the patch is really good.
2007-02-22 18:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use more protection when having sex if you can't resist besides it's too late to hold off having sex until marriage since you've already done it. or stop having sex and just mess around with her.
2007-02-22 18:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by ebonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been having sex that long it may be kind of hard to stop so talk it over with her carefully. May talk about marriage.
2007-02-22 18:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should nt stop this because sex is the part or love so my advise plz get marry as early as possible and be satisfied and make your girlfriend also satisfied
2007-02-22 18:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really worried then stop having sex with her and everytime you get the temptation remind yourself of the possibility of her getting pregnant...
2007-02-22 18:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by f.lipped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY ADVICE IS TALK IT OVER WITH HER MORE THAN ANYTHING SHELL UNDERSTAND BUT WE ALL KNOW THE MALE HORMONES TRY TO FIND SOMETHING THAT MAY HELP YOU OUT 4 A WHILE
2007-02-22 18:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by coconaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋