My boyf of almost 2yrs asked me to move in with him on Valentines Day over dinner. Well now it seems like he wants to take it back. He hasnt said it, but hes asking weird questions and hinting on maybe hes changed his mind. I finally just asked him straight up did he still want to live 2gether. His answer waas"sure". Im like what??! Then he says u dont have to move in if u dont want to i was just trying to make u happy. My response was no thank you, id rather u want me there bcause u know in ur heart u do. Is it me or should i just avoid this subject from now on?
2007-02-22 17:57:24 · 16 answers · asked by B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not bring up the subject any further... He should have asked you only because he wanted u to move in,not to make YOU happy~! It sounds like he is confused.....Let nature take its course~! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 18:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 12:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be oh so happy you dodged this bullet. Why in the world would you be happy to be shacked up with a guy just so he had ready access to sex any time he wanted. Be happy when a real man loves you so much he asks you to marry him because he can't stand being away from you and wants you in his life forever.
2007-02-22 18:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I would stay away from that... you dont ask someone to move in to make them happy... i would wait on the move in part and see where your relationship goes.. playing house is fun but when it ends it would be UGLY! drama you dont want or need! best of luck to you! Hope the girl to girl advice helps! more fun stuff at my blog i have a big mouth and big opinion http://ramblingjenn.wordpress.com
Good Luck!
2007-02-22 18:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Pure Genius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste more than 2 - 3 yrs in a relationship without marriage.
Never have children out of wedlock...
Sounds like you need to break up and move on to
someone who is ready to commit to you...
2007-02-22 18:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?? You shouldn't move in and just play "house". If he is your true soulmate then you will be living together one day, as a married couple.
2007-02-22 18:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Momma04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only asked to make you happy then it might not be what he wants. So to avoid him being unhappy maybe wait a little while longer.
2007-02-22 18:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, my boyfriend has done something very similar to this to me. It drove me nuts!
I think that sometimes we try to please the other person in the relationship more than we please ourself. We try to make sure they are happy so much of the time that we tend to overlook that it might be making us unhappy.
I think that if you want to move in, tell him you do, because it would make you happy. If you don't like the idea, tell him no, because you wouldn't be as happy.
Maybe it's time to do something for yourself.
Good luck.
2007-02-22 18:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to move in, but it sounds like he is not trying to push you into it. But I believe he really wants it. Good Luck.
2007-02-22 18:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just you.
Yes you should avoid the subject.
And you should think seriously about also avoiding the guy and moving on.
2007-02-22 18:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋