I am not a bad looking guy,I am very handsome and women ask me all the time why don't you have woman?I tell them I don't know and I just walk away.I want to have sex with a woman,but I don't know what to say.All I want is a one night stand.All of my friends have girlfriends,but I am the only one left out and they want me to have a woman and they keep nagging me about it.I wonder what sex feels like,but I'll never know until I try.I'm tired of being a virgin,I just learned that it's uncommon for a common for a man to be a virgin,so I must get rid of it.I live in a town where virgin males are rare.Either man or woman please give me advice.
2007-02-22 17:42:17 · 24 answers · asked by Roberto del Rio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When they ask "why don't you have a woman?" suggest that they volunteer, give them a wink, and see how many of them slap you.
2007-02-25 18:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you give it all up for a roaring one night stand....meaning in a single tick you'll open yourself up to herpes (which can't be cured), AIDS (which you won't survive) or getting some stranger pregnant (leaving you with a party favor to last for at least the next 18 years....)...just so you can get your rocks off?????
Come ON, surely you're smarter than that! Sex was INVENTED to be experienced between two mature, loving people (man and woman) who also happen to be MARRIED. That little boundary was set up for a reason. Actually, it's in place for a long list of reasons, some I've already touched on.
Grow up. Save yourself some misery and the possible consequences of high risk, stupid behavior and just wait until the right girl comes along.
Besides, who has to know you're a virgin unless you're advertising it?
Furthermore, who would be egging you on to do something so stupid? Surely no one you would call friend????????
Be good to yourself - live smart, not sexy.
2007-02-22 17:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you watched 40-yr old virgin? It's a movie starring Steve Correl. Being a virgin is not that big a deal. People lose their virginities for whatever reason. You shouldn't have to feel like you want to be de-virginized out of peer-societal pressures. You are still young. Do what makes you feel comfortable, and if/when you are ready. Some people save their virginity because they want to experience it with someone special. But it is up to the person him/herself.
2007-02-22 17:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright probably the best thing you can do to get a girl is to go to a club one night and start talking to a girl that you think is good looking and take it from there, you'd be surprised how many of them will want to do it. just remember that your first time at sex, youre prob gonna suck so dont do it with someone that you like and want to be with in a relationship with for a while. just pick up these girls at clubs for a while n do them that way when u found a girl u wanna spend the rest of ur life with, when u first do it you will be good at it...good luck
2007-02-25 18:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by DJ Vinny The Ginny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. Women ask you why you don't have a girlfriend, you say "I don't know" and *walk away*?
Well, there's your problem right there. You couldn't recognize a come-on if it grabbed you by the lapels and screamed "I'm interested! Talk to me!"
Women don't just magically appear. Girlfriends don't just materialize in your bed. The next time a woman asks you that question, take it for the clue it is and TALK TO THEM.
2007-02-22 17:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my honest opinion I think you should stop just wanting a "one night stand," because if you're wanting to lose your virginity you should at least find someone that you can be with and it's actually going to mean something. And if you say you're a decent looking guy it shouldn't be that hard for you to find a girl.
2007-02-22 17:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by ~jess~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose is the opposite of tight. So, you want to untighten your virginity? And you learned that it is uncommon for a common- I see, and you would "loose" your virginity to either a man or a woman. Wow.
2007-02-22 17:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont pay for it, dont go to a hooker. ok if all u want is a one night stand im sure you could find a number of women, especially if youre good looking and i dont know...go out talk to a girl about whatever ask back to your place unless you live with your parents and then um idk but if not then take them there and let it happen but is it really you that wants to loose your virginity like that or is it just because your friends bother you about it
2007-02-22 17:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you i have the equipment.
where have you been all this long ? stay there and widen your search and not here in the internet .its very cool being a virgin if dont know, lossing it you will never get it back,so please loss it to the person you will want to look at ,speak to, walk with, show him around, talk about (positively) the folowing days and years. that is your husband!!!
2007-02-22 17:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by mini-haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be serious...Do you know how precious virginity is. Don't just throw that away because your body ( and you know the part I'm talking about)is telling you your ready. Wait. Pray on it. Then wait and pray some more.
2007-02-22 17:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by texaslady73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't pay for it, and don't go to a hooker. who knows what they have.
i say if you wanna lose your virginity but are afraid that you will be bad for your first time, i say have sex with a drunk girl so she doesn't remember you. for a man it's a lot less frowned upon to have sex promiscuously, but i would NEVER recommend that to a woman.
2007-02-22 17:54:34 · answer #11 · answered by X-tine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋