we recently talked and i ask him if there is still a chance of getting back, he tole me that he don't know, no one knows... i can't read his mind...pls help
2007-02-22 17:30:10 · 13 answers · asked by Mimi Meow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i know that is something that you are giong to have to talk to him about
2007-02-22 17:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look at it this way;if he says i don't love you anymore,then he never really did.real love last forever,,,,together or not."use to"is the same thing as "once upon a time".
so together or not,if it was and still is real,it will be with you forever,where on the other hand,if it is a "use to"then like a fairy tale it will day be forgotten cause it was never real.
i know i proably didn't answer your question but,hopefully you'll understand "love"a little better and get over him a little easiler if it don't work out the way you want it to.
2007-02-22 17:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that you want to get together with him. That is why u are asking this question.
He says he doesnt know. He couldnt decide. meaning 50% yes and 50% no. It is either you help make up his mind. Or let things be becos he simply doesnt want to decide. It also can mean that he wants to keep u as a spare.
Give him a timeline, or give yourself a timeline.
If things dont happen, you gotto move on.
2007-02-22 17:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by lime 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If his initial answer is he doesn't know...take it from me...that is a big no. Let it go and move on with your life. You cannot make him love you even if you love him. What you will do is make yourself appear less valuable to him. Move on and find a new life for yourself. If he decides to come back, you may find you don't even want him at all anymore.
2007-02-22 17:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how he feels my ex came up to me at a party last weekend and said he missed me and that he wanted to know if we might be able to get back together. So let me give you the reason I told him idk, he hurt me in more ways then one and I am still trying to sort through those feeling. Plus I am involved with someone.
2007-02-22 17:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Stacie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means no. He just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Find a new man, this one doesn't want you back
2007-02-22 17:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now you know how all men feel ,when they ask women something.
2007-02-22 17:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people truly want to be together, they will be - why do want to be with someone that isn't sure about being with YOU?
2007-02-22 17:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think he wants to let you go in a nice way
2007-02-22 17:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's a reason why he's your ex. why would you wanna get back together with him? move on.
2007-02-22 17:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by X-tine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋