2007-02-22 17:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by Angie O 1 in Pets ➔ Cats
That has to do with the natural temperament or personality of the individual cat. Some cats are aloof and detached; others more "clingy;" and other in-between. As your kitten matures, his or her personality becomes more and more obvious.
2007-02-22 17:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Phoebhart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find this a very strange phenomenon indeed. I've somehow always had male cats. (They seem to find me). In most of my readings, it is said that female cats are usually more affectionate due to their maternal instincts. However, over the past decades, through comparing the cats I have come into contact with, female cats seem more aloof upon reaching sexual maturity. I would never have imagined it but it is really true of almost all the female cats I have seen. They are more selective of the people they like and prefer to approach their owners during 'quiet time' for a quick cuddle before doing their own thing. Male cats on the other hand remain goofy and playful most of their lives. My two male ragdolls love nothing more than to flop themselves on the floor belly up in the middle of a group of people, to solicit bely rubs..
2007-02-22 17:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by aken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all foreign to my, My 8 yr old spayed female is very affectionate to anyone who visits, and of course, to the family. She is always where the family is, comes when she is called, and sleeps with my wife and I every night.
In contrast to that, when we first adopted her, she hid and we didn't see her for three days.
You might try getting some interactive toys that you can play with together. A piece of string can provide you with lots of play, and costs nothing. Sing to your cat, mine just loves that. Talk to her whenever she is around. When ever you walk past her, give her a little scritch on the head, or under the chin. She may yet come around.
2007-02-23 03:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you treat it as a kitten and as it gets older. It also depends on 'how detached' you mean.
2007-02-22 17:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Bonanzas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. Sad. :( My kitten is now a little over a year old and is much more aloof than she was as a bitty thing. She's still lovable, but she likes her space.
2007-02-22 17:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you mean by normal. Cats are independent as a rule and like us they each have their own unique personalities.
If you are concerned about your pet it never hurts to check with your vet.
2007-02-22 17:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by AdRiA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As others have stated, you must have a female cat. The male cats are annoyingly clingy.. but the female ones are independent. If you like the clinginess, you should have gotten a male cat..
2007-02-22 18:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Angie,
Yes, kitties have their independent streaks. They like to do things their own way, and have their own space. But you will find that they have their times when they want to be a lap kitty, and want affection. Don't take it personal when she strolls off and tries to be her "own woman". It's ok. That's the nature of the cat.
2007-02-22 17:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is natural. like humans, teenagers learn to spread their wings eventually. Doesn't mean they don't need their daily dose of cuddles though!
2007-02-22 17:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes: it's a cat. That's what they do. If you wanted gratitude, you should have gotten a dog.
2007-02-22 17:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by screaminhangover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋