I feel like I'm the only girl over 20 who has never been kissed. Am I crazy?
Do you think in today's society we still have "Old Maids" and "Spinsters" and at what age is this decided?
2007-02-22 16:28:05 · 29 answers · asked by Lindsey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont even think like that you haven't found a guy you want to kiss yet.
If you haven't found the right guy yet... so what the time will come when you meet this great guy and you cant resist kissing him.
For now focus on more important things and then one day..... the right guy WILL come along.
2007-02-22 16:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Syann M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the exact same way so don't feel bad! I don't swear either. It's really really hard to stay true to yourself, espcially in college, but ultimately you have to look at yourself in the mirror for the rest of your life. And I don't know about anyone else, but I plan on liking what I see. There's a lot of people like us out there, they just don't feel the need to write it in red across their foreheads. I don't consider myself an 'old maid' or a 'spinster.' Be the you can be and if it's meant to be it'll be. Have confidence in yourself!
2007-02-22 16:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have intact DNA (smile). I am more than twice your age and I have not been around the block as a lot of women half my age.
No it is not strange. Many young people your age would have you to think that you are missing out on something and you are not. Just know that once that road is crossed, it is crossed!
Take your time-that is y-o-u-r time. Doing something you will regret and not be able to take back may hurt you more.
Know that smooching on everyone and having relations with all that come your way is not to be envied.
So not to worry about labels that used to be honored in my day. In this day of transference of DNA it is best to be the weakest link!
2007-02-22 16:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are not the only girl, there are countless girls like you out there living with cats...just kidding.
Personally, as a guy, I don't like the idea of my girl having been with another man. It would be so special to know I was the first guy you kissed.
It is tough to find a girl like you out there, most of the girls I find are girls I would not want to have a long term relatioonship with because I know they have been around and can't resist temptation.
2007-02-22 16:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by arrow h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more common than you think. At this day in age, the standard is hardly existant. Don't worry, you're still very young and might just not have found the right guy or the right moment yet. Be patient.
2007-02-22 16:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have spinsters, overly dedicated business types and also we have shy people and also people who don't play the social games very well.
Not sure which you are but don't panic. It will be a blessing when you finally kiss your man.
2007-02-22 16:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Why have you waited so long? You need to take chances. Life is all about trial and error. If you are looking that special someone to be with for the rest of your life. you are not going to find him on the first shot. Date around. Take chances. I am not saying sleep around with everyone you meet, but go an have fun.
2007-02-22 16:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by geo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, sweetie, Kiss and sex have no limit... It comes when the right time approaches. Nothing is wrong with you... But hey, if you were around me, I guarantee that your first kiss would have been broken at age 14, and I hope you are a female.
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2016-12-17 16:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww hun. You're NOT old and no it's not weird at all!! I was 20 when I had my first kiss AND first boyfriend!! and I'm REALLY glad that I waited! Don't rush it cuz u will remember your first forever:) You are precious and a treasure:)
2007-02-22 16:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋