This certain guy (crush) always talked to me, laughed with me, and so on, then finally, it came to a COMPLETE stop!! He stopped talking to me except occasionally. I tried seeing if He would talk to me, but he won't!! We were laughing and talking in one point, and then we stop talking to what seems like forever!! Then since I like him, I occasionally look at him from time to time, and most times, I keep seeing him staring at me!! No matter where I am, we won't talk, only look at each other!! I want to talk to him, not stare each other to death!! What do I do?!!
2007-02-22 15:51:16 · 19 answers · asked by Mgina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add... I'm SHY!!! An another too...HE's SHY TOO!! That's why i can't be the icebreaker!! We make a great combination don't we?
2007-02-22 16:03:31 · update #1
Sounds to me like he has caught an attraction for you. And since he realizes this, he is 'freaked' a little and feels uncomfortable talking to you the way you used to. As a guy, I can say this is normal behavior. Don't know why, it's just some guys are like that. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 15:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, Since hes shy, There are a few things that could be happening.
First thing I figure is that he liked you because shy people usually only talk if thy like someone, or if they cant stand the silence anymore (silence is deafening).
He probably had something go through his head that he didnt like, maybe something caused by misinterpretation of something you said. That can happen easily with shy people.
He also may be embarrased of something he said. If he has low self esteem, he is going to beat himself up about stuff that seems rediculous from the outside.
2007-02-22 16:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Doggzilla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ask him what's wrong. Mabye someone said something about you and he chose to believe them other than asking you. The worst thing that could happen is that he's just not going to talk to you in which case just shows that he's childish. Just go tell him that you wanted to figure out what was going on. Explain to him that ya'll were fine one minute, and the next it's like ya'll never knew each other. I'm sure he'll let you know something, and tehn you can just go from there...good luck.
2007-02-22 15:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably scared to death of you and cannot believe that he actually could be with you. I do not know how old you are but am guessing junior high school . I hate the fact that when people ask these question, they never state their age. Yahoo should really control this stuff.
2007-02-22 15:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably found out you liked him, and it is making him wonder if he likes you, hence the staring. I hate being stared at and i hate catching myself staring. But what some people don't realize is that you stare because you despise someone not because you like them. So i am going play devils advocate, unless you want to know if he likes you, let him come to you first, don't be the person who initiates the awkward conversation.
2007-02-22 15:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him ask him why he's acting like this. It does seem really strange that you guys had good thing going on then it suddenly stopped something must be going on try to find out. If he stilll doesn't talk i say just ignore him he sint worth it if he's going to act that imature about it
2007-02-22 15:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him he will eventually give in the problem is when he was doing all that talking and laughing at first you should of asked him out but you didnt. (he was trying to impress you) but you didnt catch on in time so he slacked up so let him know you want to start talking again and see what his reactions are!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 15:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he was interested with you before but not anymore, he has his own reasons and fears and notions and prejudice , and the person he wanted you to be was totally different
i know its hard, but there is no way to solve this rather than to open up and widen the horizons, find a new one
think of this if he even wants you that much, why would he not even make any effort to make you feel it?
2007-02-22 15:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha, Stare at each other to deathLOL. Um well I personally think some girls or guys said something to him about you so all i can say is speak your mind. ur cool!! lots of personality
2007-02-22 15:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by ebonycorine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, i feel for u. this happens a lot n it happened to me. Men!
Listen if he wants u hes gonna ask u, u dont have to run after him.
If u cant move on, try asking urself wat u did or said wrong. once u fiigure dat out, go apologise. dats wat i did. if he has even an iota of feelings for u, it shud be ok.
if he still doesnt budge u know wat u have to do. U did ur best. Now move on. and oh if ure both shy, its not a good match...its a disaster. try some1 more direct.
2007-02-22 16:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Typhoid Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋