im deeply in love with this guy that is 17 and im 16 he is very athletic.I really love him.My Sisters know that i like him but he doesn't know that im in love with him.I flirt with him and he does the same back.HELP!!!! NEED ADVICE???should i tell him or not??
2007-02-22 15:44:49 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Babe♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're interested or ask him out. definetly do not tell him you like him. that would just freak him out. good luck :)
2007-02-22 15:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all you CANNOT be in love with a guy you have only flirted with. You might be very attracted, or have a strong crush on him, but let's be real here. As for telling him how you feel, that all depends on if you are willing to be rejected. There is always that possibility when exposing your feelings. If he is flirting back, then chances are he might like you also, but some guys just find it fun to flirt so they can watch you blush. Maybe you should just wait and let it evolve (or dissolve) on it's own.
2007-02-22 15:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i wouldn't tell him if you aren't dating him. Youa re still pretty young and from my own experience i have told people i have loved them just to find out that i really didn't love them after all. I would hold off saying it until you think that you both love each other. Flirting with one another is a natural teenage occurrence but it doesn't mean that you love each other. If he loves you he will tell you eventually and if you guys are meant to be together forever than that is what will be in the end.
2007-02-22 15:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should make sure he's not dating anyone because you would hate it if it came back to you. If he's not than maybe you should tell him what your feelings are for him. If he flirts back it could be a sign. But also watch out he's not just playing back at you. You know how there are also guys who just have fun flirting with all kinds of girls. So good luck.
2007-02-22 15:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him. Because if you don't then someone else might ask him before you and he'll say yes. And with what you've said it's sounds like he likes you. It'd be such a shame if you missed an opportunity like this.
2007-02-22 15:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lily_Flowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him directly. Ask him if he's ever thought of both of you together. You'll know what to say or do after you get your answer.
2007-02-22 15:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vypa69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. If he's into athletics, he's probably flirting with lots of girls and you will simply make a fool out of yourself. If he is interested in you, he'll let you know.
2007-02-22 15:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lois M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love. You just think he's handsome. If you consider that love just wait until you actually find TRUE love.
2007-02-22 15:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt tell him just yet but you 2 are flirting so that's great keep going with that and later on in time if you still feel in love with him then tell him but not this soon.
2007-02-22 15:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him... he may be toying with the idea of asking you out, but is hesitant to do so because he's afraid you'll say no...
2007-02-22 15:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by rottenchild90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋