confused about a boy :[!?

Question

ok.
so. a few days before my birthday i met this guy. we ended up hooking up.
&& we spent like every moment together for like 3 weeks. && all his friends were like he's gonna ask you out && like he never did. but i waswilling to take it slow i never pushed for it.
well one week he just stopped talking to me. like i'd call him he wouldn't pick up. i message him on myspace && he'd read with no reply. well come to find out he joined the navy. i gave him this long note telling him how i felt bout him...&& i thought he'd talk to me more. but he didn't. we talk a little on myspace but i miss him a lot. he's leaving for boot camp in march...next weekend i'm having a little get together && want him to be there but i'm afraid he won't come. i haven't asked him yet...what should i do. what should i say to him. i'm still # 1 one his myspace but he won't tlak to me. :(

Answer 1

stop using ur brain, use your heart.

go up and talk to him. he's leaving soon. clear all the doubts so that u wont have regrets later on in ur life.

get the answer from him and tell him how u feel.

good luck! and remember no matter what happens, its going to help u to grow into a fine young lady.

Answer 2

Okay, Well The same thing, slightly happened to me. He is probably coming off in the since of, If i start hanging around you too much, Ill miss u horribly when and I wont be able to say good bye. The way I solved my problem was literally going up to that person and talking about the situation. I really hope it works out for you girl, cause when I experienced that, I felt totally abandoned

Answer 3

I understand where you are coming from. I had this guy whom I totally fell for and we met while I was on a vacation. When we parted ways, I wrote him letters hoping we can continue on with the relationship despite the distance but he never replied back. If felt so sad and it felt like he was just fooling me. I never heard from him and I never saw him again. Morale of the story: When God closes a door he opens another window. If he doesn't want to get in touch then its his lost. Don't wait in vain. The two of you don't have a commitment yet so don't hang on to him. I am sure there's a better man for you!

Answer 4

Look he really loves you and he is going to just leave with out coming cause he might not be coming back soon when he goes. which makes it that he it kind of trying to let you go not because he doesn't care about you but not to hurt you which may not seem the right thing to do but I mean people do things the think is right when it comes to this kind fo things

Answer 5

In the Navy the worst thing you can get is a Dear john letter. So a lot of us get rid of our girl friends before they get rid of us. Most girls will not wait for a guy in the military and we know it. The % is against you being there for us. If you think he is worth the wait tell him . He will most likely not believe you. None of the girls waited for me. One waited till I was shipped over seas and sent me dear John letter Good luck wish you the best

Answer 6

sounds like you tried. might tell him you need to move on if he isn't going answer. or you might ask if you can write hime while in navy. a friend was dating someone going in service and didn't want to start something or leave someone

Answer 7

just ask him to go.
tell him that it would mean a lot to you if he went so you could see him one last time before he leaves.
i'm sure he'll show up.

Answer 8

I feel your pain.
Invite him to the party. At least you will have given it a try.