it seems to me a guy would not risk a relationship to have sex with someone else unless he really liked the sex with the other women better or even liked her more than the gf.
mabe he's with the gf for material reasons or temporary
gains?please help!
2007-02-22 15:42:09 · 21 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both otherwise he would leave one alone for slacking and find another. they both have different personalities that aren't satisfying to him alone maybe he should find someone with a personality like the two of them combined, and the sex style of the two of them combined DREAM GIRL??
2007-02-22 15:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Princess B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would bet it's not even really about the sex. It's about his inability to commit. I have known guys who intentionally undermine the relationships they have with the people they care most about. It's a way for them to keep a "disconnect" from their gf. They can use the "friend" without having to make any promises....and when I say "use" I don't mean that the friend isn't willing - not like it's against her will or anything. I was the Friend before....and I did it for the sex. But I knew he loved her and guess that it wasn;t my super sexuality that kept him coming back to me!
2007-02-22 15:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by JENNIFER B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. it really is not any longer emotionally healthful. I agree on some off your factors. I not at all dated even notwithstanding I absolutely have a fiance. We met at artwork and grew to develop into acceptable acquaintances. He finally requested me (a year later) if i'd be his gf. We were given engaged after 7 months. we are both 24. We were one yet another's first and that decrease out truly some the drama of ex gf and ex bf and previous luggage. i assumed i became satisfied on my own yet now i'm able to't imagine life without him. And by the way...some thing worth having takes artwork. i comprehend someone like you. He swears he will not at all even date lower back. i think sorry for him because he's lonely yet would not pick to take a probability on life. do you pick to look decrease back and say "nicely a minimum of I not at all were given harm. I not at all journey genuine exhilaration both. became it worth it?"
2016-12-04 20:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a very confusing question, I'm not even going to pretend to know how to answer that other then to say maybe he should practice some self control and keep it Zipped up for a while before he catches "the clap" or herpes or something worse like getting one of the above mentioned pregnant
2007-02-22 15:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fluffy, you shouldnt be caring about who he likes sex with more. what happened to respect? neither one of you girls is getting it. hes gonna get away with whatever you two let him. whoever is not the girlfriend should be walking away from this situation. he didnt make you an ex for no reason. i know its hard but there are plenty more guys out there. just walk away. Be a woman.
2007-02-22 15:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one the guy should not have two girls
for another it is even worse to be sleeping with both of them
need to get out of that situation.. he is probably telling the other girl that he will leave the other one or vice versa both need to find a man who will pay attention to just them not 2!
2007-02-22 15:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by ibitemytounge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not having sex with another woman because he likes her more,it's because he can! If he truly liked her more then why hasn't he dumped the girlfriend?Face it he likes having a booty call-but wants to stay with the girlfriend.Most likely if he had to choose it would be the girlfriend.She's not sneaking around with someone elses man!
2007-02-22 15:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by connie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes playing booth girls, man this it what we call a typical male in his domain, everywhere in the world you will get this situation and im afraid to say the the only reason guys do this and get away with it is beacuse there are girls out there that allow this to happen...
It take Two to tango and in this case its more than two,
Stap back take a look at you self and wonder why this is happening to YOU?.... Exactly its YOU and thats why its happing to you...
2007-02-22 15:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by prettybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is a filthy little waste of space, oxygen thieving, good for nothing, disease spreading s**t - as are either of the girls if they know about the situation... otherwise they are just unfortunate little pawns in some sick f**ker's game...
and i mean really - who gives a stuff which sex he enjoys more, i hope he gets some rowdy std and his d**k falls off ;-)
2007-02-22 16:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by StockRdHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy still prefers the 2nd one cos of experience n better relationship.
2007-02-22 15:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋