Ok...my boyfriend cheated on me with one of my best friends...well he kind of did...he liked her...let's just say that...and she liked him...but anyways. This was about 4 months ago...I found out about A month ago....but i didn't dump him...but should i??? i asked him about it on email...and he lied at first...but then i told him i had proof and he said he was sorry and he REALLY really really really really really reallly REALLY..and i mean REALLY wanted to make it up to me....I wouldn't let him...I really really like him...well l*o*v*e him...but.......i don't know if it's worth all of this crying??? is it????
2007-02-22 15:40:00 · 11 answers · asked by Brito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Note that we have been friends since kindergarten...and the "reason" he liked her was because *this is what he said* she had told him that i was apparently gonna dump him and he got mad......w/e...but yea...:'(
2007-02-22 15:53:11 · update #1
yes you should dump him. although you love him, if you take him back, it will tell him that if he cheats, that you will always take him back. basically he might think that its ok to cheat on you again if you take him back.
2007-02-22 15:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Make him beg for you. If he doesn't beg for u back for about a week, her really doesn't love u back. He has to show in his actions that he is sorry and not just say it. If it was that long and he didn't tell you, obviously you can't trust him anymore. Dump him. There are plenty of fish in the sea...dump him even if it is for a short time. Find another guy...there are good guys out there...
2007-02-22 15:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by sportman16977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's not worth crying over, trust me I know. There are a lot more men out there better than him,who will treat you like the woman you are. After that your relationship will never be that same. Dump him , run, run fast and never look back. He might try to tell you lies to keep you , don't listen to him. Stand your ground. Don't get me wrong it's going to be hard. You can get over it. You can find love in another man, who will love you back. Who will respect you. Don't loose your self over a man, sweetie it's not worth it. He made his bed so let him lay in it!!!! As for your friend, she is dirty. You don;t need friends like that.
2007-02-22 15:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetmocha07031984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day this decision is yours to make and not some random stranger's; but can you look at him and say you forgive him, can you go back to the way you were, is there a possibility that he would do it again and what about your friend, can you you trust either of them again?
I wish you all the best with your decision. God bless.
2007-02-22 15:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by tani n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him..I mean if he did it to you once what makes you think he won't do it to you again. There's this saying fool me once same on you, fool me twice same on me. He' s the fool so same on him don't accept what he is saying. Because when it all comes down to it he wants u to belive he won't do it again. Belive me don't be the fool. You sound young enough to go out and find some one who's not going to do this to you.
2007-02-22 15:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him. There's not 3 strikes in dating, first offense and he's out!
2007-02-22 15:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. it sounds like ur young so u have plenty of time to love someone who loves u back. U dont need people like ur best friend and ur bf in ur life. life is too short to waste on people like that.
2007-02-22 15:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A.:She is not one of your best friends anymore,or should'nt be.
B.:Don't take that kind of treatment.
C.:Dump him now,or pay...he's not loyal..then what is he?
2007-02-22 15:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you have ask yourself what are you doin wrong how can you make the relationship better
2007-02-22 15:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋