I like this girl but the problem i have is that i dont no how to?

Question

talk to her. she has a job, she goes to a different school than me. i dont have HOMECOURT advantage.

my friend told me one time a guy liked the girl i liked and one day he went to her job and said hi i think yur beautiful can i have yur number? she gave him her number but never called him. my friend said she was freaked out. IM THINKIN great i cant talk to the girl i like at her job cause im thinkin i might SCARE HER OFF.

i asked my friend u think the girl i like will think im a coward if i ask u to get info bout the girl i like? she said probaly yeah and i expecting that answer. also i asked my friend was she surprised when she found out someone had a crush on her? she said no. and said i dont think she wants a boyfriend yet. (thats me with crush)

the girl i liked said something like oh really? Who likes me? if the girl i liked asked those questions does that show a LITTLE interest?
well i need ideas in how to talk to her at her job. should i even bother talkin to her?

Answer 1

Don't listen to Daniel M, dude has no social skills obviously.

Anyway, it shows interest in who it is who's crushing on her, but not in you, sorry to say. Maybe when she finds out if she keeps asking she'll show interest, of course, with the questions coming your way, it'll show interest.

You should at least try talking to her, you may be risking a friendship and long sleepless nights, but time will heal all wounds. It's better to have known what was, than what could've been...

Answer 2

Daniel is right. Crushes are what girls have cuz they're nesters. Men need to play the field. Get out there and meet many girls and get some options, build a little confidence and then these issues won't concern you anymore. By the way, if you do bump into her, say hi etc... then say "What do you do?" and when she asks you tell her you're an *** model. And keep it up for a while, it's funny and confident and it works well honestly. But don't hang around her too long after. Tell her you're going to meet some friends and sound busy. Then bump into her a couple days later and ask if she's stocking you and that you'll give her your # because you don't want her feeling bad about never being able to talk to the person she's stalking, because that might make her violent. She'll call. just keep it up like that.

Answer 3

It's like taking a swing at a baseball. If you think too much about it: all the pitches look hard to hit, you wait for the perfect pitch, you don't swing. If you don't think too much about it: you swing at most pitches you know you can touch, you don't wait until you have the perfect pitch and you swing more. It's always going to be in the mind. Just take your chance when you get it. She says no: 1. You know it sooner and don't waste any more time, 2. She knows you like her and might change her mind later (so don't burn your bridges just say Ok and move on). Then again she might say yes. Then just go with the flow. Don't push, don't pull and everything will be alright.

Answer 4

I would have said that you should go to her job and maybe give her a nice card that says something sweet and then inside you leave you name and number for her to get back to you... But, since I just read what you wrote you may need a little help... Get a card that is about "THINKING OF YOU" Something simple not to complected... then inside you write something like... I really think your cute and think that we may have a lot in common, I would love the chance to talk to you and get to know you better and see were things go... Give me a call me when you get a chance... you sign the card "NOT LOVE" and your name and number... but sign "A NEW FRIEND" your name and number... Don't forget to leave your number... I hope that this helps...

Answer 5

man for real,you need to stop second guessing this situation.the problem here is that you need to stop fantasizing about the situation and step up and swallow your pride and let shorty know yourself personally about your feelings.if you have someone asking questions for you,you make yourself look very weak.you need to step up now before the next man will and once that happens,you short homie.if she tells you she doesn't want anything from a relation,shes saying that you didn't come correct with game and you need to step it up bro.so if i was you don't step up to the plate if you don't have your game tight.for rejection can hurt the best of us,especially if you really digging someone alot.

Answer 6

Just go to her work and start talking to her, ask her what kind of music she's into...check her body language when she's talking to you....Does she lean into you, are her eyes Dilated, is she blinking a lot, are her feet pointed in your direction is she playing with her hair or touching your arm? These are all body language ques that she likes you. Just don't go in saying how much you love her, just play it cool and you'll be okay.

Answer 7

Do not get her fired. Ask her if you can talk to her when she gets off work. If you do not force your self to do this you will be mad at your self for years to come. You can do this I know you can. Ask for her # do not give her your number Make her ask for it. Do not name your first child after me

Answer 8

Stop being a pussy and just ask her out. It's not like the world will end if she denies you.