my boyfriend is hearing rumors about me and another guy and believes them and i really didnt do it but i have lied to him before about talking to this guy on the phone cause im not allowed to talk to guys so what should i do?
2007-02-22 15:18:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you're not "allowed" to talk to other guys??? Sounds like he's a bit possesive. I would evaluate your relationship with him because that's a form of abuse.
2007-02-22 15:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by kristina807 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are innocent then just tell him that. It's hard not to judge someone by their past lies but it's not fair that he believes rumors. Let him know how you feel. I agree with the lady above me, he is a controlling boyfriend. Telling you who you can talk to and not talk to isn't very fair but I wouldn't want my boyfriend talking to his ex.
2007-02-22 15:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time to learn to NOT Lie or it will be a life long problem.
Tell the guy the truth. Another lie will just reinforce you negative credibility.
Quote Mark Twain
"A man who tells the truth has less to remember"
2007-02-22 15:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who wants to control you isn't doing it out of unconditional love and concern for your well being.
He doesn't deserve you, even if you did screw up in the past. It's not his job or his right to punish you for that or anything else.
If he isn't already, he will shortly be abusing you in one or more ways. Even if the idea is incomprehensible at this time, this is an early warning sign-GET OUT !
2007-02-22 15:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a little jealous. Just remember, you have the right to talk to whom ever you want, when ever you want with out your BF getting upset about it. He just has to learn to trust you and you need to be honest with him.
2007-02-22 15:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by paramedicguy_au 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you're not his dog.....talk with who you want...if he can't trust you, dump him....I don't care what you did in the past, if he can't get over it, then you must move on...tell him not to eat unless he's with you...see how he likes control...same thing...
2007-02-22 15:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋