I am Asian american, and my boyfriend is white (caucasian). We are in college, we spend a lot of our time with each other, but we don't live together. Whenever we walk around campus together, we feel other students (both white and Asian) stare at us and give us some eye-killing looks.
It doesn't end there though. We decided to go out to eat at a new restaurant the other night, and this man (he was white) from another table kept giving us dirty looks. He starred at us like we had some kind of disease when he got up to leave. This happens a lot whenever we eat out.
We also get some really mean looks whenever we go grocery shopping at Walmart from both races. I feel as if the only race who doesn't care that we are together are african americans. What's up with that?! Do any of you get this horrible actions from others? How do you make it go away? I sometimes want to just want to carry around a foghorn and blare it at them whenever they stare at us!
oooohhh..people are so mean!
2007-02-22 15:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by Billie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you mean my ex was indian and im caucasian...his family hated me and I didn't under stand why but then he broke up with me because he said it felt weird, I was heart broke for like 2 years. I think it's horrible for people to give other race couples dirty looks. just for get about it and hang in there, if you love him thats all that matters. don't worry about what other people are thinking
2007-02-22 15:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it, a lot of my relatives are married to different kind of races(Including asian and caucasian) , and well other people don't glare at them, hm... maybe there's something wrong wiht the people around you?
2007-02-22 15:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let other people bother you. I was in a relationship with a guy who isn't my race and we were perfectly happy because we didn't care what others thought. Just let the rude people past you by.
2007-02-22 15:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Meika_Chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...you can curse them out the next time you feel an evil glare. You can ignore it since you guys shouldn't care if you're happy together. Curse in your head about racist ******** who shouldn't give a **** about what people do in their own lives.
2007-02-22 15:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by marshimaro1993 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... i am white and my boyfriend are mexican and i have never really noticed any thing happen like that but then again i dont really care or pay attention. you just need to learn not to care what people think if you are happy with yourself that is all that matters
2007-02-22 15:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what!(and I don't mean that sarcastically). I'm afraid there's nothing you can do to make it go away.As long as there are ppl,there are problems.Get my point?Be happy and don't let others stupidity affect your love life! God bless
2007-02-22 15:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter if they stare, they are just jealous. As long as you happy go with the flow. It happens to my boyfriend and I as well but we just ignore it and carry on. Its our lives not theirs !!!!
2007-02-22 15:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by stillbay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? because that kind of stuff doesn't happen in where i'm from, new york city. interracial couples are the norm around here. i guess it depends on location as well as social upbringing.
2007-02-22 15:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Google™ me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to ignore it
if you guys are happy, thats all the really matters
2007-02-22 15:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are so wrong. white/asian relationships are considered A-ok, it's the white/black ones that are gross.
2007-02-22 15:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋