I'm seeing my Ex at a choir concert we are both preforming in tomorrow. We broke up a while ago.... actually, he dumped me for a guy... but anyway, we havent really spoke since except to ***** at eachother. So, how should I handle seeing him and his boyfriend tomorrow? Should I get one of my hot guy friends to act as my boyfriend? Cause I have been single since the split... how should I handle this?
2007-02-22 15:13:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be cordial if confronted, but avoid him if you can. Be as non-challant as possible. If you'd be more comfortable with an escort, ask one of your friends to go with you. Otherwise, just go there. After all, your performance has nothing to do with him any more. Good luck. (It's hardest the first time. It does get easier...)
2007-02-22 15:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone. Don't freak out (at least not in front of him). Don't pretend to have a boyfriend because it will look unnatural. Just hold your head up high and sing! Sing about being rid of that guy and about being free! Don't let him see you squirm. Don't let him see you lie. Don't let him think you are suffering. Just be as proud of yourself as you can. What is done is done and you should move on and let him know you've moved on. You don't need another man to show this; you need pride and confidence! Go on girl! Even if you have to fake it for the time you see him. Putting up this front will be the easiest way to show you are over him and you will actually take him by surprise. I bet he's actually expecting some sort of strange behavior from you. Men, gay or not, love to think that they have a lasting effect on women! Show him you are finished with him! At the risk of sounding like an after school special . . .GIRL POWER!
2007-02-22 15:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The split has nothing to do with you personally. It has to do with the fact that you are a girl and he likes boys. While I know that you're disappointed and hurt, there's no reason for you both to continue to gripe at each other for something that's just not going to work out. Trying to make him jealous by pretending to have a boyfriend is going to have no effect on him whatsoever. He likes boys. He's with a boy. That's the end of the story. Try and be nice to him and just be glad the relationship didn't go any further. Good luck.
2007-02-22 15:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask casual. Remember, what happened, happens. And nothing will ever change that. And you may not change his feelings. He likes guys so play it cool. And there must be a reason you want to go? Right? So pretend like nothing happens. And what you say in your head, he will never ever find out.
2007-02-22 15:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do if you see a piece of excrement in the sidewalk? You see it, ignore it and keep walking, Right? So, tomorrow you'll do the same with him. Perhaps how nasty he is that he didn't leave you for another girl, but for a guy, that's nastier and lower.
2007-02-22 15:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay much attention to him, but instead look as if though you're focusing more on the concert more than him. Show him that being single for you is better than being with him.
2007-02-22 15:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him see the young confident woman you are.. so what that he in now with a guy...... He is NO longer a part of your life for that very reason, he is now where he feels he needs to be..... so move on and get to where YOU need to be.... just smile, say hi, shake his hand and partners too, and move on......... God bless
2007-02-22 15:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best. No, don't have your friend act like your date. You don't need a date. You are comfortable just being yourself. You don't need to have a boyfriend/date to prove your worth.
2007-02-22 15:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Coachstoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you brought the guy and your ex hit on him and then you lose that too? That would make for a great story.
2007-02-22 15:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by orange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flaunt another guy around him to try and make him jealous it will just make matters worse. Above all remember to be mature! you once really liked each other...l
2007-02-22 15:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Abbey R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋