How can i tell her?

Question

THere is a girl that lives in the other town over and im rele not interested in her. i dont even want a gf, id rather be just friends with girls, how can i tell her im not interested.

Answer 1

just be gentle, and tell her the truth... the truth bites, but if she knows you aren't interested, then she can get over you and find someone else to pursue. I currently am interested in a girl that may or may not share this interest, and I know my life would be a hell of a lot easier if she just said, "I don't like you" or something like that... of course, don't be that harsh with it, you'll just be showing her how much of an asshole you can be...

Answer 2

Are you assuming SHE wants more than a friendship? Has she has made it clear that she wants more? Then who invited her over?

Do not tell her you don't want a g/f because if you do find a girlfriend then this girl will know you just weren't interested in her, which will have a much worse effect.

Tell her you don't share that same spark, or that you don't feel the "chemistry" between the two of you, but you feel she will make a great friend and you value her friendship. End of story-- no need to say "sorry", I hope you understand, etc, etc. if she starts to say well "what's wrong with me," say Nothing..just don't feel the spark. If she gets angry, then tell her you misjudged the friendship and send her home.

Answer 3

Tell her what you just told us. I know that it is hard to hear that someone is not interested in us sometimes, but it is much better to hear it upfront than leading her on or letting her develop more feelings for you. There is nothing wrong with only feeling friendship towards her. Just be honest, upfront and nice about it. Whether she thanks you for it right now, there will be a day that she does.

Answer 4

"I think we should just be friends. You are a really nice girl, but I am not interested in having a girlfriend at the moment. I am really sorry" simple as that.

Answer 5

oh
i know a good way
and its nice too!!
if she has an email address then just email her the song "say goodbye"
by chris brown!!
here are the lyrics!!


Look we gotta talk
Dang I know
I know it's just
It's just...
Some things I gotta get of my chest alright....
Yeahhhh...
Whoa, whoa, whoa, oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, oh, whoa...
Listen..

Baby come here and sit down, let's talk
I got a lot to say so I guess I'll start by
Saying that I love you,
But you know, this thing ain't been
No walk in the park for us
I swear it'll only take a minute
You'll understand when I finish, yeah
And I don't wanna see you cry
But I don't wanna be the one to tell you a lie so

[Hook]
How do you let it go? When you,
You just don't know? What's on,
The other side of the door
When you're walking out, talk about it
Everything I tried to remember to say
Just went out my head
So I'ma do the best I can to get you to understand

[Chorus]
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But I gotta make the first move
'Cause if I don't you gonna start hating me
Cause I really don't feel the way I once felt about you
Girl it's not you, it's me
I kinda gotta figure out what I need (oh)
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But we know that we gotta go
Our separate ways
And I know it's hard but I gotta do it,
And it's killing me
Cause there's never a right time
Right time to say goodbye

Girl I know your heart is breaking
And a thousand times I
Found myself asking, "Why? Why?"
Why am I taking so long to say this?
But trust me, girl I never
Meant to crush your world
And I never
Thought I would see the day we grew apart
And I wanna know

[Hook]
How do you let it go? When you,
You just don't know? What's on,
The other side of the door
When you're walking out, talk about it
Girl I hope you understand
What I'm tryna say.
We just can't go on
Pretending that we get along
Girl how you not gonna see it?

[Chorus]
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But I gotta make the first move
'Cause if I don't you gonna start hating me
Cause I really don't feel the way I once felt about you
Girl it's not you it's me.
I kinda gotta figure out what I need (oh)
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But we know that we gotta go
Our separate ways
And I know it's hard but I gotta do it,
And it's killing me
Cause there's never a right time
Right time to say goodbye

Listen to your heart
Girl you know,
We should be apart, baby I
I just can't do it
I, I just can't do it
Listen to your heart
Girl you know,
We should be apart, baby I
I just can't do it
And sometimes it makes me wanna cry
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh [4x]
Do you hear me crying?
Oh, oh, oh [4x]

[Chorus]
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But I gotta make the first move
'Cause if I don't you gonna start hating me
Cause I really don't feel the way I once felt about you
Girl it's not you it's me.
I kinda gotta figure out what I need (oh)
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But we know that we gotta go
Our separate ways
And I know it's hard but I gotta do it,
And it's killing me
Cause there's never a right time
Right time to say goodbye

[Chorus]
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But I gotta make the first move
'Cause if I don't you gonna start hating me
Cause I really don't feel the way I once felt about you
Girl it's not you it's me.
I kinda gotta figure out what I need (oh)
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But we know that we gotta go
Our separate ways
And I know it's hard but I gotta do it,
And it's killing me
Cause there's never a right time
Right time to say goodbye

Answer 6

Tell her that you don't want a relationship right now.

Answer 7

Words work.

Answer 8

just flat out tell her.

Answer 9

Tell it like it is.........But be nice about it and tell her the whole truth.........