my boyfriend and i are having a disagreement. i think that it is possible for a man to be good in bed even though they can't keep it up long. he thinks that is a man cannot last long in bed, that means they clearly don't know how to please a woman. answer this for me please. isn't it possible that even though a man can only last like 5 mins in bed, it can be the best 5 mins of sex?
2007-02-22 14:52:22 · 15 answers · asked by TinTin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get me wrong everyone, my man isn't a 5 min man, i was just asking to get opinions on this matter
2007-02-22 15:11:39 · update #1
I agree with that. Some women may want it to be a little longer, but as long as the guy gives it his all, has a great stroke, and hits the right spots, then it could definitely be the best five minutes ever..
2007-02-22 14:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by precious_angel321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 00:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, even if he can keep it up long, it doesnt nessicarily mean hes pleasing her, you have to know what your doing, And not being able to hold his load, isnt always a bad thing, lets just hope he's down to stay a while and finish you, via it be oral or maybe hes down for round two. the more orgasims the better. But most importantly The chemistry has to be amazing. If you two arent feeling eachother then its not usually mind blowing. Besides its not like all women always take forever, i've had mindblowing orgasims that haven't taken long at all to make. PLUS theres always forplay.
So i say i side with you.
2007-02-22 15:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Katie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-02-02 09:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing the statement that your boyfriend made about a man can only stay in the bed for five min in a true lier. My man and I go at it for hours and more that once a day and we have been together for three and a half years. To be honest if he cant keep it up no longer than five min then its either one of two answers. One he may not be sexually attracted to you which is a bad thing or he's getting it from somewhere else. Sorry to say but you need to call him out on it and dump him girl. TRUST ME. I've been that situation twice.
2007-02-22 15:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by ddcwalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me good sex depends on who's reporting it being good sex. IF you, the woman, is getting off within 5 minutes,,, then fine, it's good sex. But if the man is getting off in 5 minutes, and you are still just getting started, then it aint good sex for you, but maybe for him. :O)
Now, if he is referring to the foreplay, the caressing, the kissing, the stimulation and the actual intercourse as part of the length of time for the sexual experience, then i can understand why he is saying it takes longer.
Personally, I've had good 5 minute sex episodes, and good hour long sex episodes. I've had bad 5 minute sex episodes (which means no climax took place and it was boring) and have had extended period bad sex episodes (meaning i was actually pretending that it was good, but was bored to death). Yes, men fake it to.
2007-02-22 15:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by pluto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different.
Your boy friend is simple minded.
Some guys have problem of lasting TOO long but don't enough but it is a matter of the compatibility.
Sex is an expression of affection.
2007-02-22 14:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-11 04:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, if I could get away with five minutes, and be the best!..
That would solve a few of my problems. 5 minutes? Damn, what can I do in 5 minutes?..Make a peanut butter sandwiche...#2...brush my teeth...make her the happiest girl in the world! I could do all that and still have time to get dressed and leave for work. You'd be happy at least 6 days a week.
2007-02-22 15:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by TzodEarf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think of it this way when you masturbate you know how hard to hold when to speed up and when to slow down and when your about to c u m( plus when your having sex a woman's vagina is sure as hell not as tight as your hand).when you bring another person into the equation it gets harder to tell these things. a little tip if your about to c u m pull out do something with it (into a towel, finish inside i guess, let her finish you off, etc.) and then go back in and finish her off.
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2016-04-16 11:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋