Ive been friends with this girl for like 14 mths,we met in work one mornin and since we hit it off,we both left there but remain close as ever,anyway she wud often ask me bk to her hse after work for drink and asked me up one nite alone jst me and her in her room but nothin happened and i get the feelin she wanted sumtin too happen,anyway she broke up wit this guy bout 3 mnths ago he treated her bad,the last few wks we`ve got really closer like ringin and txtin alot (shes lives hour from me) shes been calling alot since and wants to come over all the time,i get the feelin she be`s flirty sum days then others not,then wen she comes shes flirty wit my friend coz she knows i hate that lol,anyway do you think shes interested as me in a friend way or more,because i like her lot really and wud treat her like the princess she is but i dont want to say sumtin incase it spoils wat we`ve got now so i need your hlp (i got her flowers for valentines and she cried wen i gave them to her,wats this?
2007-02-22 14:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by John A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say take the chance. You'll never have more if you don't go for it. Start with a simple kiss...not too much, and see what her reaction is.
2007-02-22 14:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, this might be pushing it but its a good way to find out, when you give her a hug hold her a little while longer, like, fake letting her go but then hug her some more, and if she doesn't push away and stays there give her a quick friendly kiss on the shoulder. If she smiles that's good, means she liked it. If she's startled but then smiles, that's bad, when unexpected things happen you're body reflects true feelings. I think this'll work, my bf did this like three days before we went out and I liked him so this could work, but don't compleatly rely on me, do something sneaky.
2007-02-22 14:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres what you need to do. You need to stop questioning her and yourself, and ask her what her deal is. Nicely of course, but tell her that you like her and that you have been getting lots of mixed messages from her. Ask her how she feels and what has been going on.
This should help give you a better idea about what she wants and what she is feeling at the moment.
2007-02-22 14:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont play the guessing game, ask her and both of you just openly talk about it. If your on the same page then great persue a relationship with her if not then continue to be friends and find yourself a girlfriend. dont make the simple hard make the hard simple
2007-02-22 14:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I'd say she wants to be more than just friends with you, all the calling, flirting, texting and flirting with your friends by the way just to see what you will do or say, wanting to come over all the time, cried when you gave her flowers, shes giving all the signs.
2007-02-22 14:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say her ex treated her bad.....it's very hard for women to sort out their feelings after a bad relationship...hard for them to get to close and trust someone again...it sounds likewhen she feels herself getting to close to you that she pulls away...that's pretty normal if she has relationship issues...just take it very slow with her and don't just tell her how you'll treat her show her in everyway that you can.....be paticent with her let her know how you feel and that your willing to take as much time as she needs...but if you tell her that mean it!
2007-02-22 14:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by mrs_b40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. She likes you. Possibly she's crazy about you! Just kiss her. Next time you're together and you find yourself looking into her eyes, kiss her. She's bound to kiss back. Trust me.
2007-02-22 14:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tashatikuh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i was acting like her it would be because i was interested. You should go for it
2007-02-22 14:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by k_sheri21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell naw.. i'm proud to work out them flow shirtless.. yet for pete's sake~~pull your freaking pants up~~no person desires to work out the crotch of them putting all the way down to you knees.. nor do i prefer to work out your drawers...
2016-11-25 01:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's on the prowl for somethin' and if you don't step up now, your cousin just might.
anyway it sounds like she's really into you just go for it.
2007-02-22 14:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋