Hi, I have this thing that has been bothering me a lot. I met this guy at a party last weekend. We danced the whole time at the party. It seemed that he was interested because he asked me a lot of questions and offered to walk me back to my dorm. Though we didn't, since I came with a friend that I couldn't ditch her. So I might seem a little bit of indifferent to him that night. However, I am very interested in him. So I emailed him the next day asking him if he wanted to hang out. He emailed me back after 2 days saying he had fun, but he has other stuff to do this weekend.but he would like to hang out with me in the general future. he also asked my phone number in the email and saying he is gonna call after this weekend. I emailed him back with my number.
I know it is not next week yet, but it makes me anxious that he didn't talk to me these day either through emails or other stuff. I wanna know especially from guys,is he really interested or he just doesn't care that much? Thanks!
2007-02-22 14:34:46 · 15 answers · asked by michelle8pitt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See if he calls but get involved with something else in the mean time. Dont be too anxious
Given what you say, he probably likes you but don't be putty in his hands.
Take it easy. Dont worry there are lots of us out there if it does not work out.
Some people take more time to be interested. The girl with whom I fell int he most, took quite a long time to be interested in.
2007-02-22 14:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just busy...I know how it is at first, but you have to remember that you both had a life before you met each other so try not to let this little thing distract you to much, because it's really not that big of a deal that he isn't calling you right away. He could just be a very busy person:)
now if he goes like a month..yeah maybe he wasn't that into you, and by the way your sounding..I'm sure if he has ignored you that long you will have found someone else to be crazy about:)
2007-02-22 22:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hollywood*M* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go for now. If it gets to be this time next week and he doesn't call yet, send him another email. But, just remember, guys don't check their email as much as girls do, even if they have their own laptop at their disposal. My boyfriend checks his about once a month, while I'm on mine AT LEAST once a day. I can't explain it...for some reason they're just not on there as much as we are. I'm betting he hasn't even read your email yet to get your number off the computer.
2007-02-22 22:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because he's a little nervous or really is busy, he hasen't had time or courage. But since you are expecting it so much, it might seem like it's taking forever. Be patient is all, if he doesn't phone you next week, then you can go ahead and e-mail him again. You don't want to e-mail him too soon, you might seem anxious or despereate, some guys don't like that, or like to tease a girl more when they see that. that's all I can say.
2007-02-22 22:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by couture yourself. <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys need flash cards, if you know what I mean. Give the guy some kind of sign that you're interested. But to be perfectly honest with ya, this guy just isn't interested in you. If he were, he would've been all over you. Time to move on, Princess
2007-02-22 22:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for answers mostly from guys and that does make sense... get a guy's viewpoint. But just as you said, it's not next week yet. And if he doesn't call you, repeat after me: "It's his loss". WORKS FOR ME! :) Hope it all works out the way you want.
2007-02-22 22:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by â?¥â?ªâ?«Karenâ?«â?ªâ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows....guys in general don't call or hurry things like t his unless they are or want to appear desperate.
give it a rest.
2007-02-22 22:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he mean it when he said he will call next week...hang tight..don't bug and he'll be calling everyday..lol
2007-02-22 22:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
srry but u may have seemed to anxious. so just cool wit him dont get ur hopes up! its not worth it just keep busy so u dont think about him! then who knows wat ill happen. Just be prepared for the worst
2007-02-22 22:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the love takes its course.
2007-02-22 22:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋