what do i say 2 a boy who likes me but i dont like him and i think he's really ugly?

Question

his mom always say how look how kewt he is n he'a really ugly! plus im already taken so i cant use dat excuse cuz nobody noes im takin!

Answer 1

Be kind to him, somewhere in the world there is someone that would find him attractive to bad it's not you. Don't feel guilty about it though but be kind to him, you'd want someone to do the same for you.

Answer 2

The best way to tell a guy that you're not interested is to be perfectly honest with him. If you try to work around it, things will just get more awkward. So there isn't much to lose. You have to hope that he's reasonable enough to be able to accept the let down and handle being friends without letting it get awkward. Tell him that it was nice of him to say all these nice things about you, but it makes you feel kinda weird. If you really want to be friends with this guy, the best way is to just come out with the truth, which is always tough to deal with, but it'll turn out better in the long run.

Also, make sure to be gentle about saying what you feel. Don't call him a weirdo or a freak for having hopes of something happening. if anything, be apologetic - basically, try not to embarrass him. Especially if you want to have a friendship, that way he won't be afraid to continue this friendship.

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Answer 3

Be nice to him. First, you never know whether you'll find positive attributes about the guy later and well, there is no reason to be mean.

Second, be direct in terms of not being interested in him that way. Just say, there's no chemistry and that you are in love with somebody else at the moment. Be friendly but don't flirt.

Good luck.

Beware that when you are young, jerks look more attractive until you see what they do to you. Don't be too proud, keep an open mind and a kind heart, and you're less likely to get hurt or abused yourself.

(If he is really persistant and does not take no for an answer, there is actually a time to be abrupt but use it as very last resort.)

Answer 4

First, don't be mean to him. If he likes you, then he's super sensitive around you. You must know that it is not his choice to be attracted to you. He's attracted to things that you do and the way that you are. He can't help how he feels about you!!! You should be flattered to have someone crushing on you. If you don't like him in return, let him know nicely. Since you can't tell him that you already have a guy in your life, tell him that you like someone else. Tell him that you think it's only fair that he moves on and let you go because he doesn't need to wait around for you while you are "crushing" on another guy.

Basically, just tell him the truth while sparing your feelings about the boyfriend and his feelings. Make sure you DON'T tell him that you find him ugly. You may think that way but some other girl may not.

Hope I helped! Good luck!

Answer 5

The last thing you want this guy and his mom thinking is that there may be a chance for you. If he is a good guy then dont just be so rude to him. Work the nervers up and talk to him in private. Tell him you think he is a really nice guy but you just dont see yourself in a relationship with him. Tell him you look at him as more like a friend and you would rather not mess up your friends. If he doesnt want to talk to you after that then he wasnt true to be with but if he's okay with it then you know you have a good friend.

Answer 6

I don't know if you mean he's ugly on the outside, or from within, but whatever you do or say to him, be kind. Is it a secret that you are already taken? If not, I think that is a perfectly logical explanation for not being interested in him.

Answer 7

Don't be rude to him and tell him that he's ugly, that will only make him feel bad. Just tell him that you are not interested in him like that. Why don't you want anyone to know that you are already seeing somebody? I would just own up to that and tell him that.

Answer 8

Be nice and tell him you are sorry but you are not interested. BE NICE!!! You made it a point to say you think he is UGLY instead of just saying you dont like him and that is not nice , you can also be UGLY ON THE INSIDE!!!

Answer 9

Don't say anything until he asks u out or something. If he told u he liked u...he may feel like ur obligated to answer back to him as to whether or not u like him. i used to be in the same situation...this one kid...he tends to talk back to teachers...speaks bad of his dad which i dont know if it was all true or if hes just angry at his dad because his dad is somewhere else...but he gets attitude problems and i could tell by his body language...always touching my things...touching my shoulder...i could tell he liked me. but he was unattractive in many ways...he has attitude problems...immature...and not attractive physically...i try not to let the physical parts bother me cuz i dont mind...but i dont feel anything there for him. i havent said anything to him...and he hasnt been touching me anymore...i dont feel bad...because not everyone will feel attracted to u....but there will be people who like u...just as to him...ur just one of those people who don't feel attracted...but it seems to me u were just looking on the outside...because that was all u spoke about were his physical qualities...none of his personality. its his mother...of course she thinks her son is cute and all...its his mother, she feels proud of him and she loves him...every mother could never look at the physical parts of their child and think that they are ugly, all they could think was that their child is utterly beautiful...that is why so many parents have a hard time believeing their child did something bad...when it really was them.
u thinking hes ugly, thats only an opinion...it could never be a fact...because no one is TRULY ugly...just looks different. i think u shouldnt say anythin to him UNLESS he told u that he liked u....if he did u should tell him ur taken...dont mention anything about his physical attraction.

Answer 10

If I don't feel attracted to a girl, I wouldn't call her "ugly" because that is demeaning someone. What if the role is reverse? Would you like someone to call you ugly? How would you feel then?