I'm in a weird situation...I like a guy friend of mine, we've known each other for about a month and met threw a girlfriend of mine. His body language at times reads interest (sweaty palms, eye contact, and proximity) and we get along fantastically...as long as there are people around. It seems as soon as my girlfriend leaves the room he gets very quite, or finds a reason to leave the room. I don't understand this because there are times when the three of us are together and he and I will get to talking or joking and it feels like we're the only people in the room (I'm not blowing off my friend, we all basically live together and my friend is often doing her homework while the two of us are talking). SO, how do I know he's shy? Well every time we hang out with other people, new people, he gets quite and reserved (not himself at all). I'm getting allot of mixed singles, sometimes he seems like he's interested and sometimes not at all. HELP!!!
2007-02-22 14:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Do Do Do Do 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay so everyone is sure he likes me, but how do I tell him, or get him to tell me. I've recently ended a friendship that was sort of co-dependent, slightly romantic, and very mentally abusive...he knows about this, and knows that I want to deal with things on my own, in my own time...but this also makes him believe I am not interested in a relationship. How do I make in know I would love to be with him without trashing this great friendship we've been building, or throwing myself at him. I’m flirting like crazy and being very playful, but it’s coming off as this is who I am and that my actions with him are nothing special…how can I change what I’m doing to make him realize I like him without having to spell it out to him.
2007-02-22 15:32:59 · update #1
Oh wow. I think this guy definately likes you! The reason he leaves the room, is because he can't HANDLE being alone with you. It makes him nervous, gives him the jitters. And it's a for sure if he smiles at you a lot. A genuine, real smile. :) You're so lucky! Shy boys are just precious.
2007-02-22 14:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tashatikuh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey boys will be like this, im not an expert though.
i might keep eye contact with him as long as possible.and smile when you are around him.mabe you could lean on him a little or sit closer to him.if you really do like him he'll know it .anyways ....some people have sweaty palms all the time kindof a nervoisy thing ...yaknow? he might also be bi polor >< dont ask him though!lol good luck..
2007-02-22 14:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by JeNnJeNn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your right he does like you alot, but he gets quiet when YOUR around new people. He is concerned about you and is holding back. should someone in the new group start bothering you, he may emerge and attack who-ever. This is a very true friend. a friend that you like and a friend that adores you. I'd get closer to him.
2007-02-22 14:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps sneaking some peeks at ya during classes then he loves ya!And if he does then ask him out if you feel the same way!And make sure you have a freandliy talk with him!Don't get too upseive(can't spell) over ok?Just chat with him and tellk you how you feel about him then ask how he feels about you with the whole truth!
2007-02-22 14:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeppers he likes you. i know thats how i act when i like a girl.
2007-02-22 14:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Matt W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. I know.
2007-02-22 14:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by ..Queens of the Led Fighters.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋