Am I a Pest?

Question

He never said I was. He never says that we spend too much time together. Im always wondering how I look to people. I wish I could stop. Right now Im wondering if the guy I like is tired of me. I wonder if I look desperate. We sleep together, no sex, like personal teddy bears, we are. Im always in and out of his room. I have other friends not many, I hang with them, and when Im not with them Im with him. He never tells me to go away. But I wonder if I look bad, always going back to him, not a day goes by we dont see eachother. Its always bc I go see him. Whether he call me to come, or I go by myself. I know that he goes to other ppls rooms. Im starting to wonder why he doesnt come to mine. It never bothered me before b/c I like to go to others rooms. I like my own private space, but theres girls right across the hall that he goes to go see. I know bc i hear his voice in the hall.

Answer 1

You need to work on your self esteem. Even if he doesn't see you this way now he will start to eventually because of your attitude about yourself. Work on your self talk and the next time you hear his voice in the hall open up your door and invite him in.

Answer 2

college dorms?... well, a lot of things happen in them, but, maybe you should ask him, and you don't have to worry about it, because you are not a pest, you love him, and thats what matters, love. and time is irrelevant during the amount of time spent together, because its always glorious...

Answer 3

No but you're awfully insecure it seems. Let the guy chase you for a change.

Answer 4

You sound desperate and clingy in your post. I can only imagine how you are in real life.

Answer 5

i really do not know