Well I like him but he only likes me as a friend. He has been treating me horrible but sometimes nice. I want to give him a taste of his own medicine. Just the other day I flipped him off and he got sad and confused because he didn't know why I flipped him off. I just want to make him feel bad. Is that wrong?
2007-02-22 14:23:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am trying not to hold a grudge for what he did to me but it's hard. I am wondering why had to treat me bad I was being really nice to him I even went to his basketball game and brought him his hat when he left at school and etc. The only time I wasn't nice to him was when I flipped him off. I didn't flip him off on purpose. I just don't understand why he has to act all buddy buddy and then act like such a jerk to me.
2007-02-22 14:40:23 · update #1
Well yeah, but don't worry about it. I've been in the same spot, putting up with a guy who treats me like crap because he knows I'll put up with it. I started spending all of the time we spent together just waiting for the few moments he'd treat me well. But I finally came to the realisation that I deserved better. When I made this decision and cut him from my life, it hurt, a lot, but I'm happier now and my heart is free to feel for other people.
2007-02-22 14:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Do Do Do Do 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont play games, they will just backfire and please dont use some other poor guy to make this jerk jealous, you might end up hurting someone who doesnt deserve it. Also why would you want to bother if he's horrible to you even for a minute? Doesn't sound worth the effort of even thinking about a plan to me. Just be better than him by not playing games, ignore him and act like you dont care, and eventually you'll realise he's a moron and u really wont care. xx
2007-02-22 22:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by hillpip_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you hoping to prove by making him jealous? Why would you want to make someone you supposedly like feel bad? If he doesn't like you the way you like him then don't be pissed about it, accept it. And yes you are wrong. Leave the guy alone and maybe you two shouldn't be friends if you can't act right.
Let me correct myself,...you two shouldn't be friends if the BOTH of you can't act right. It's pointless.
2007-02-22 22:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are wrong for wanting to make him feel bad, not that what he does to you is unimportant. Revenge is never right. If he treats you like crap then leave him alone. If he really wants you as a friend (or maybe more) he will come around. If he doesn't then he isn't worth it.
2007-02-22 22:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's not kewo to want someone to feel bad. You can't 'make' them feel anything though, it's a choice.
Treat others as you want to be treated. If you wouldn't want someone doing unkind things, then don't do them yourself.
Be more mature than to behave that way and want someone to be jealous...if they don't like you as you are and for who you are, then why waste time on them?
2007-02-22 22:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! don't do that show him that you are always gonna be the sweet person cause if you are mest up to you why would he want to go out with someone like that ..........why would you want to be stuck with a guy that confuses you just get your self a new crush there's more fish in the sea!!
2007-02-22 22:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. You can win people to your side more easily by gentle persuasion and flattery than by hostile confrontation
Treat others as you wish to be treated
2007-02-22 22:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Silly Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it kinda is,but don't do it!!Tell him how you feel!He'll understand and if he does it again,well more like 3 more times(being mean) then tell him your going to do something bad to him taht he'd wish he was never born!But,just do nothing and watch.You'll be luaghing your head off evnetully.
2007-02-22 22:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know it is wrong, otherwise you would do it and not ask about it.
Treat him how you want him to treat you and it will always be just fine. If he does not treat you how you want to be treated, then move on.
2007-02-22 22:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats wrong
dont do evil on someone who has done it to you.
just ignore him all together and try to get over it
no need to stress over anything.
life too short for dumb nonsense
2007-02-22 22:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋