i can do the "after school do u want to go to starbucks (which is right next to the school)" just fine but i cant ask her on a date i dont know why i just freeze like a freaken idiot
what can I do to fix this
2007-02-22 14:21:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of this way if you dont ask someone else will..Yes or No is another matter..if she says yes go on...if she says no just be yourself and cool...Girls like people who have a cool nerve(atleast some girls)...
Best of luck..
2007-02-22 14:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Database 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're at Starbucks, just get a cookie or something and aske her if she wants to go somewhere else while you have some in your mouth. Its not good manners, but then you'll feel like whe might not have heard you. Or, you could write it on a piece of paper. I don't have much experience with that kind of thing. I met my girlfriend when we accidentially teamed up to beat up this stupid kid at school. It was the start of something great. I just write a message and then fold it up in a paper airplane and then fly it to her. It makes her laugh. You should try that.
2007-02-22 22:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by dark_forsaken_wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Starbucks a few times. Once you feel comfortable around her, randomly ask what movies are out, if she says "oh i want to see.........it looks good" or something like that, then use the power of coffee, to ask if maybe she would want to go see it with you. Best of luck! Oh and as a girl speaking, don't look down and mumble, girls like a confident guy with pride.
2007-02-22 22:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Reeses' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to know you have some confidence, but she knows that if you're nervous you must REALLY like her! Just call her up some evening and ask if she wants to walk around a park nearby. That was my first date with my current boyfriend; 5 months and still going strong!
2007-02-22 22:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by MLR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just practice saying it to yourself or talk about something else then just drop it on her. If you still can't do that then simply get her number or email address and send her a message asking her out on a date. Or you could also write her a note that you could give to her after school.
2007-02-22 22:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Young,Sexy&Educated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can text her, or just practice in front of a mirror...yes, it sounds a little retarded but it might work. You just need to feel confident and boost your self-esteem and the worst she can say is "i'm busy". If she does, (I'm not saying she will) then look on the bright side! There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-02-22 22:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by 1tuffcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself. If she says "yes" to starbucks then she will say "yes" when you ask her out. Just go for it. You will regret it if you don't do it soon. Good luck.
2007-02-22 22:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gain confidence just think you are asking her to starbuck and later realize that you asked he on for a date........later you could be freak out but when you are not with her
2007-02-22 22:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something in common, like you guys are interested in the same kind of movies, and ask her if she wants to see the movie she's been waiting for
2007-02-22 22:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by rise FROM the ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not start out slow by striking a conversation. mabey start by saying hi and see where it leads you. eventually you will feel confortable anought to sugest getting together and going out. good luck, hope this helps...........
2007-02-22 22:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋