I have known a guy for a yr plus now. He has been going thru tough time in his love life with his wife. To be precise he is in the process of annulling his marriage. And recently he has expressed his interest on me. I also like him the same way and have admitted my interest on him as well. And I have also told him I will wait for him till he sorts out his life. He agreed as well so for now we are just friends and no relationship thingy is going on between us. He wants to know how I feel towards him, but he hardly says what or how he is feeling towards me. I dun want to push him too much also to know how he feels about me. I was just very happy a couple of days back and now there is completely nothing and all this are making me upset. Did he just say it all for the fun of it? Did he not mean it when he told me he likes me? Feeling bad...
2007-02-22 14:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is English Jimmy J, perhaps you would like to re-phrase your sentence. Thx.
2007-02-22 14:21:11 · update #1
Let him go! He's taking advantage of you. He has already showed you how he is with a relationship by having the first one annulled. Dont waste yourtime, he's really not into you he just wants a warm body to bounce to. Really, find someone else. Do you really want someone who gives up so easy on what should be along marriage? What will he do to you?????
2007-02-22 14:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by susan_thierry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you've done the right thing by waiting... Wait until it ends completely... Be careful of people who use girls, there's hundreds of millions of them and they all have the same tricks. When you watch TV you see the same scenarios all the time and it always ends up that the guy's just a user...
Maybe he does mean it that he likes you, but remember he most likely loves the other woman and she'll always come first before you. Make sure you're just not the "fresh-meat" (sorry to use terminology like that) that he's been after to spice up his love life.
In conclusion when the marriage is over, that's when you should step in and do something about it.
2007-02-22 22:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hun if you and him have a open friendship...why not ask him..its better than just being sad and confused...Im sure if he does care about you..he wont think that the question is out of line or anything like that...be honest with him...if you do end up in a relationship with him honesty is a big factor....might as well start now....Best of Luck!
2007-02-22 22:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by ...J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl be smart! I hate to burst your bubble but you have to realize
that if he can do such a thing to his wife then he might just do the same to you. Sometimes, the more you show how you love
him, the more he will take you forgranted because he knows you will always be there. If he wants you nothing can stop him from
being with you, if he doesnt, nothing can force him to be with you.
be smart darling, you have to love yourself first if you want others to love you too. Good luck!
2007-02-22 22:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. This doesn't sound right for you. You need to find someone that isn't in this type of mess. If he's having problems with his marriage you don't need this drama. Find someone single and that respects and likes you for real.
2007-02-22 22:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,just do what feels like you!If you wanna tall him,then tell him!If you want to keep a secret then don't tell!
2007-02-22 22:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone you don't want to be the rebound
2007-02-22 22:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by SUZANNA J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait your turn :]
2007-02-22 22:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋